Want to watch wife with another man

[cuckycuckold]

40+ years - started as newlyweds after dating and fantasizing together for several years in college. Started with frequent sex with a guy who hung around the pool at our apartment complex and expanded to swinging to eventually a hotwife lifestyle. I use the term cuckold to describe our relationship but it's more a hotwife thing and not so much humiliation or domination - though there has been off and on. We raised two great kids and had very successful professional careers. And plenty of kinky fun along the way. Stacey turned 62 this year and has a stronger sexual appetite now than before.

That's an interesting point you make about swinging.
Swinging is the gateway to sexuality.

 

[davelb76]

That's an interesting point you make about swinging.
Swinging is the gateway to sexuality.

Because I'm not well-endowed and was never able to last long before cumming, swinging actually created a lot of anxiety for me - from a performance perspective. For Stacey - it meant she was able to satisfy her insatiable sexual appetite. As I became more and more embarrassed about my lack of performance we did less swinging and expanded our lifestyle to more hot wife scenarios. Back in those days, before the internet and mobile phones, it was quite a different experience. Not as easy to vet a potential lover for her. Almost all of her sexual experiences was when we vacationed away from home - I always met the guy and generally hung out a bit to figure out if he was legit, safe, etc. Then I'd accompany them to his or our hotel room while they had sex. I was never allowed to watch - even during swinging because it made her feel too self-conscious.

 

[cuckycuckold]

Because I'm not well-endowed and was never able to last long before cumming, swinging actually created a lot of anxiety for me - from a performance perspective. For Stacey - it meant she was able to satisfy her insatiable sexual appetite. As I became more and more embarrassed about my lack of performance we did less swinging and expanded our lifestyle to more hot wife scenarios. Back in those days, before the internet and mobile phones, it was quite a different experience. Not as easy to vet a potential lover for her. Almost all of her sexual experiences was when we vacationed away from home - I always met the guy and generally hung out a bit to figure out if he was legit, safe, etc. Then I'd accompany them to his or our hotel room while they had sex. I was never allowed to watch - even during swinging because it made her feel too self-conscious.

Because I'm not well-endowed and was never able to last long before cumming, swinging actually created a lot of anxiety for me - from a performance perspective. For Stacey - it meant she was able to satisfy her insatiable sexual appetite. As I became more and more embarrassed about my lack of performance we did less swinging and expanded our lifestyle to more hot wife scenarios. Back in those days, before the internet and mobile phones, it was quite a different experience. Not as easy to vet a potential lover for her. Almost all of her sexual experiences was when we vacationed away from home - I always met the guy and generally hung out a bit to figure out if he was legit, safe, etc. Then I'd accompany them to his or our hotel room while they had sex. I was never allowed to watch - even during swinging because it made her feel too self-conscious.

I know exactly what you are talking about.

 

[Allen Amboy]

Thank you Dave76. Has it helped yall become a closer couple, marriage etc. I expect the jealousy will always be there also but sex or we havent even met him yet. Lol is it worth it Dave?

Funny, I’ve never felt any jealousy. The very first time I felt nervous but that was because I wasn’t sure how it would turn out. But even before starting this cuckold lifestyle I never felt jealous. Not with my wife or previous girl friends. I always asked them about previous relationships

 

[someadultfun69]

I would love to watch my wife in bed with another man while hidden in a closet. Crazy fantasy. I have talked about this with my wife and she is all for it when horny or after a few drinks. Otherwise she is worried if she dies it someone will find out. Deep down I know she wants to but can be a prude when it comes right down to doing it. She is extremely horny in bed and will do anything I want. I am thinking if I can find a guy to cone from away and stay o ER night with us, we could have a few drinks and u know he could seduce her. Not sure if any other way to get this done. Long time fantasy if none. Makes me extremely horny when I think about it.

Where are you located?

 

[Ariess]

From her last playdate a week ago. It's a clip from a whole movie she made with a bondage photographer. 🙃🙃🙃
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Love to get a hold of her for awhile.

 

[Xxzz101]

Yes I have done that. Sitting on the chair while my wife is getting doggie while I kiss her on the lip. While her bf plays with her big tits.

I have done it too. She asked me to kiss her when he was going to enter her. The feeling was amazing.

 

[jw_kk]

Hiding and watching is something we’ve incorporated into a bunch of our encounters.

We have a favorite hotel that’s configured for long-term stays. The rooms are suites, with privacy-fenced patios, a second floor loft/bedroom, and a downstairs master suite, living/dining area, and kitchen. This is an ideal venue for remaining out of sight, while watching KK fuck and suck strange men. I can watch from the patio, through the door into the master bedroom, or from the stairs or loft, if she’s entertaining a man in the living area. The rooms were all remodeled for ADA compliance, with no-threshold showers, and a toilet alcove - I can even sit on the head, stroking my cock while KK’s having wet fun with a man in the shower.

At home, several years ago, we invested in a custom mirror that uses one-way glass. It’s in a rolling frame, and it’s huge - 96” long and 78” high. We keep it in the playroom, and during some role-play, I sit behind the mirror with the reflective side facing KK and the action. That way, I get the full view, while remaining out of sight behind the mirror. I also get the benefit of hearing all the hot, sexy wet sounds and talk.

We kind of got into this because having me hiding was a thrill for KK, and also reduced her inhibitions, if I wasn’t directly in view - she knows I’m watching, but I’m not “in the picture” to distract her or a lover.

 

[Myhotwife]

My girlfriend loves filming porn for me to jack off too while she watches me watch it hahaha it's a big turn on for her knowing she's my favourite little "pornstar". All her playdates are vetted through me first and all done with my permission. Without it she isn't even remotely close to attracted to the idea of sleeping around really. I think that's what turns me on the most, other than the fact that she looks really fucking hot being fucked even if its not by me lol

Love it, great situation!

 

[verkitwme]

Question from a guy that is literally going through the jealousy as he sits at work. My wife is texting a guy right now while at work that she will probably sleep with. No doubt. I found him for us. I will watch as she wants me to. But the knot in my stomach is sometimes like I'm going to throw up. Our passion has never been this high!!! From blowjobs in parking lots at volleyball games, to her asking for me to cum in her ass which used to be a no no!!! But my question is does this process get easier on the husband? I trust her %100. We are communicating about everything!! She shows me texts and I can read her phone anytime I want. But the nervousness, the unknown, the jealousy is crazy for me! Will I survive? Lol serious though is it worth letting this happen as a couple? Please be honest. Would like the husbands point of view, wife's, and the bull or BF view as well. Please don't ask for her KIk or try to hook up!! She has enough going on right now if you know what I mean.

My wife asked me to respond to your thread.
Is it worth letting this happen? Only you will know after it does. Are you prepared to watch your wife suck another man's cock? Then go balls deep in her and watch her cum with him? Kiss him passionately? Be prepared for a wild ride. It took me two years of convincing before my wife took the plunge.

That time and many many times since I've done the cleanup role. I LOVE it all. Watching her and her lover is a masterpiece of sex. Highly recommended IF you can take it as it's NOT an easy journey.