We’re both curious and into the kink but…

At this point I’m the only one actively looking into potentially finding a right fit. Would have to be extremely attractive and fun to be around in order to fit or interest my gorgeous wife. True facts.
I would love to see her filled UP and my fantasy can go to a lot of wild places but I’d definitely have to be holding her hand and watching her experiencing deep pleasure.
Realistically, I’m guessing it might not be possible to come across a legit sexy, attractive interested guy or couple who’s on here (in the southeastern U.S.) but who has “decent respectable” traits as well. Haha, I guess you never know. Anybody else out here window-shopping happen to notice half or more posts or comments seem to be years old, and mostly UK? I just wonder, is the interest in the U.S. steady, increasing or waning? Maybe I’m just checking the wrong outlets for real potential, discreet hook up?
 
At this point I’m the only one actively looking into potentially finding a right fit. Would have to be extremely attractive and fun to be around in order to fit or interest my gorgeous wife. True facts.
I would love to see her filled UP and my fantasy can go to a lot of wild places but I’d definitely have to be holding her hand and watching her experiencing deep pleasure.
Realistically, I’m guessing it might not be possible to come across a legit sexy, attractive interested guy or couple who’s on here (in the southeastern U.S.) but who has “decent respectable” traits as well. Haha, I guess you never know. Anybody else out here window-shopping happen to notice half or more posts or comments seem to be years old, and mostly UK? I just wonder, is the interest in the U.S. steady, increasing or waning? Maybe I’m just checking the wrong outlets for real potential, discreet hook up?
Would love to fill her
 
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Watching is one thing but if you have to be holding her hand, you are not ready. Her hands will be busy, you are not in reality, you have a very detailed fantasy in your head that no one can ever live up to. In positions you may be able to hold hands but that will be for seconds out of each hour, it’s not realistic for her when having sex with someone else, You have to be the stronger one if you want this, it’s not I must have my hand literally held throughout or it’s a no go. What a joke. That’s worse than the no kissing rule. And deep pleasure, lol another man spending all his time thinking about other guys cocks and cock size instead of his wife’s actual pleasure. Maybe let her pick the men and you just sit in the corner quietly and try not to ruin it for her
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At this point I’m the only one actively looking into potentially finding a right fit. Would have to be extremely attractive and fun to be around in order to fit or interest my gorgeous wife. True facts.
I would love to see her filled UP and my fantasy can go to a lot of wild places but I’d definitely have to be holding her hand and watching her experiencing deep pleasure.
Realistically, I’m guessing it might not be possible to come across a legit sexy, attractive interested guy or couple who’s on here (in the southeastern U.S.) but who has “decent respectable” traits as well. Haha, I guess you never know. Anybody else out here window-shopping happen to notice half or more posts or comments seem to be years old, and mostly UK? I just wonder, is the interest in the U.S. steady, increasing or waning? Maybe I’m just checking the wrong outlets for real potential, discreet hook up?
As of late finding it quite daunting to find couples in the lifestyle unless you actively pursue swingers clubs. Online is usually just fakes or dl dudes wanting dick
 
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Most people you meet will just be fantasizers. Something no one actually mentions is having sex with an audience is not as easy as it sounds. Everyone wants a porn star wife, but when it's their turn they shrivel up. It takes more than bravado to do that. So, you will have to look for a while but guys are out there.
 
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Most people you meet will just be fantasizers. Something no one actually mentions is having sex with an audience is not as easy as it sounds. Everyone wants a porn star wife, but when it's their turn they shrivel up. It takes more than bravado to do that. So, you will have to look for a while but guys are out there.
Yeah, i concur and appreciate the insight. Want to absolutely 💯 wait to find the right guy and it’s quiet but spoken so it’s out there in the universe now, he’ll find us I’m sure.
 
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Yeah, i concur and appreciate the insight. Want to absolutely 💯 wait to find the right guy and it’s quiet but spoken so it’s out there in the universe now, he’ll find us I’m sure.
Being near Dallas I always expected to be flooded with opportunity. But I haven't found a wife yet myself. I think you are taking the right approach. Be open to it. Be watching for it. Don't do any of that thrill seeker, stuff and rush into something. Stick to your standards and wait. It will show up. As you say it's out there now.
I think the very act of being open to it and watching closely opens up the opportunity pool. Suddenly you are evaluating all interactions through a different lens. You key in on things you missed before. I think being a wife looking may be easier than being a bull looking. Men tend to be more overt. Women are more subtle.
 
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Being near Dallas I always expected to be flooded with opportunity. But I haven't found a wife yet myself. I think you are taking the right approach. Be open to it. Be watching for it. Don't do any of that thrill seeker, stuff and rush into something. Stick to your standards and wait. It will show up. As you say it's out there now.
I think the very act of being open to it and watching closely opens up the opportunity pool. Suddenly you are evaluating all interactions through a different lens. You key in on things you missed before. I think being a wife looking may be easier than being a bull looking. Men tend to be more overt. Women are more subtle.
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