What’s the best paid lifestyle site to find a match for my wife?

I recently tried using Doublelist and have at least three bulls that replied that seem very good.
We didn’t have good results from any pay sites but did have good results the last 4 times we went to the theater
I think we will try to arrange something with the few responses from the dl ad.
Did get a few dumb replies
If you find a good one let us know
I’m sure others would like to know