What’s the Next Step?

[jimmytwotimes]

So my wife and I like to fantasize when we have sex. When we first met 14 years ago, she was still in contact with a well endowed ex that she was sexually obsessed with. She shared with me a couple of videos of them having sex and it changed me. I’ve masturbated to them over and over again.
Over the years his name came up a few times during sex, but usually it was a not go there fantasy. Lately, it’s all we think about during sex, his big, thick, veiny cock. I’m not sure it can or will come to reality, even though I know her pussy wants it. I don’t want to create a situation where it ruins our relationship or the relationship he is in. But I also feel like we are perhaps on the cusp of making our fantasies a reality. Any suggestions on next steps?

 

[nicebiguy]

So my wife and I like to fantasize when we have sex. When we first met 14 years ago, she was still in contact with a well endowed ex that she was sexually obsessed with. She shared with me a couple of videos of them having sex and it changed me. I’ve masturbated to them over and over again.
Over the years his name came up a few times during sex, but usually it was a not go there fantasy. Lately, it’s all we think about during sex, his big, thick, veiny cock. I’m not sure it can or will come to reality, even though I know her pussy wants it. I don’t want to create a situation where it ruins our relationship or the relationship he is in. But I also feel like we are perhaps on the cusp of making our fantasies a reality. Any suggestions on next steps?

I think it might be more comfortable and intimate with someone where there's a history and previous relationship. What do you think?

 

[jimmytwotimes]

I think so too. I know she’s comfortable with him, and I know she’d love every minute of it too.

 

[Wantsomefunto]

She should try and message him tonight and see what he has been up
To

 

[jimmytwotimes]

He’s in a relationship too. A few years back they were messaging each other and she caught him, she’s not as open as I am.

 

[Wantsomefunto]

Well it is worth a try or else you need to ask who else she would consider playing with

 

[jimmytwotimes]

Yes, at the very least there are no shortage of experienced well endowed men who want to have this kind of experience

 

[Wantsomefunto]

Send her out to a bar to flirt

 

[jimmytwotimes]

That’s a possibility. I’m sure everyone can realize it’s a long and complicated journey. When the timing is right, for sure. She’s driving the bus

 

[imherManwantHER]

Yes, at the very least there are no shortage of experienced well endowed men who want to have this kind of experience

Can be hard to find one that appeals to my wife, I expect that’s the real quandary for any really beautiful, self assured woman who’s simply willing to explore the lifestyle at the husband. Real women generally aren’t gonna hook up with anyone she’s not actually attracted to. The cock isn’t really enough for the whole picture to work.

 

[jimmytwotimes]

Wow, that’s a really interesting observation. And yes, she’s got to pick the one and feel comfortable with him in this situation for sparks to ignite

 

[jimmytwotimes]

We’re going to have sex tonight and already know she’ll be thinking about big, thick and veiny

 

[imherManwantHER]

I relate btw, although my wife for 37 years hasn’t been shared yet. Never dreamed of it till the kink set in a couple years ago after watching hotwife bbc porn together.
In our case, there’s only one guy she’s ever brought up to me that she’d no doubt be open to because she’s brought up on numerous occasions and she makes it clear that he rocked her younger world with the biggest cock she’s ever seen. This was a couple years before we were together. He’s the one we think we’d like to have join in a threesome but he’s married and has been out of contact since he ran into her over 30 years ago in town and asked if she’d call him if she ever wanted to have an affair.
We’ll see.
I wish you the best with your future adventures.

 

[jimmytwotimes]

Thank you. Sounds like a wonderful fantasy to say the least.