So I'm 42 and my wife is 41 and we've been married for 17 years living in Florida....Neither one of us has ever cheated in the past. And she is definitely super loyal to me, and our sex life is fine. We were both with roughly 10 people before getting married. But during the pandemic, I started getting the urge to share her....maybe it was the fact that life is so short and fragile that I wanted to have some fun. I shared this with her over some wine one night, and she showed me that it made her pussy wet. We did proceed to have some pretty hot sex while watching a MFM porn and even did a DP with me in her ass while she rode a dildo. Long story short, I've brought it up a few times over the years but she never really seems to bite. She said she isn't ready and will let me know when she is. My wife is a legit 10/10 and any guy would be lucky to fuck her. I'm just not sure where to go from here, I'm not a cuck in a sense of wanting to be humiliated and whatever else comes with that. I'm more of an Alpha who is pretty controlling so my fantasy definitely has me pulling alot of the strings as everything goes through me...she's my wife. So with all that said, I do feel we fit more into a stag/vixen role. But to be fully transparent, my dick is average at best and 95% of the time I don't last very long and the other 5% I'm able to really give it to her. So part of it is that she deserves/wants to really get pounded and I feel I can't deliver. She has always been open about liking to be dominated and I know of 1 ex that use to really fuck her well as she's told me. Also, I'm almost 100% no man could ever take her from me but I'm sure we all feel that way.
So I come here looking for expert advice, I'm trying to not only understand my thoughts and urges but also how you all gauge her response to my fantasy. DM's welcome
Irish
So I come here looking for expert advice, I'm trying to not only understand my thoughts and urges but also how you all gauge her response to my fantasy. DM's welcome
Irish