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Maybe you can help me understand what is it that makes people want to waist your time??my wife had mentioned maybe some of the guys just like to get off on talking about being able to fuck her but not go through with meeting up and actually doing it.
Like most of them......Ask anyone who has played for real and you'll get an earful about no-shows and dick pics. Isn't it amazing how many dumb fucks think that looking at a dick pic will cause a woman to be aroused?! Sitting in front of a sceen while jacking off and sending out replies with dick pics is a long way away from actually meeting a couple in person. 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 And for the married guys responding to those couples, it raises the dilemma of how to fuck another guy's woman without his own wife finding out. That's what you will be dealing with.

Assuming you and your wife agree that she can play with other men, and it won't negatively impact your relationship, - Why not put yourselves in the right environment to meet the right guy? My wife always went to the bar with coworkers after work events and meetings, and it was a virtualo fountain of opportunity......Get out and socialize - as Bostoncouple stated above, "serendipty" is what it's all about, - and you could start with the bar of a higher-end business hotel (or a hotel where traveling sports teams stay when on the road) - just go there for a drink during the week when the businessmen are the primary occupants of the rooms in the hotel and will be at the bar in the evening, and horny. Just go and see how you like it, keep the expectations under control. See if your wife likes the envionment there, and get up to the bar where people talk and bodies can come in contact.

Being able to watch and interact with people in the flesh, so to speak, is the way to go. Responding to ads and other online stuff wastes too much time and may never pan out. Besides, once you raise the idea of going to a bar or other in-person socializing opportunity with your wife you are going to find out real quick if she's really commited OR if she's just been playing along stroking your libido with no intention of enjoying the attention of other men. It gets you hard and horny, but may not be something she'd do. And if she's comfortable going without you, your odds just improved dramatically. Why fuck around with responding to ads and endless communications and preliminary meetings and all that? You'll die of old age before you score. And never forget: your wife is the one who will be admitting a penis into her, with all the risk that entails. It's a big step from fantasy (here, in this forum) to reality (in the hotel room with a guy she doesn't know real well yet).
 
Like most of them......Ask anyone who has played for real and you'll get an earful about no-shows and dick pics. Isn't it amazing how many dumb fucks think that looking at a dick pic will cause a woman to be aroused?! Sitting in front of a sceen while jacking off and sending out replies with dick pics is a long way away from actually meeting a couple in person. 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 And for the married guys responding to those couples, it raises the dilemma of how to fuck another guy's woman without his own wife finding out. That's what you will be dealing with.

Assuming you and your wife agree that she can play with other men, and it won't negatively impact your relationship, - Why not put yourselves in the right environment to meet the right guy? My wife always went to the bar with coworkers after work events and meetings, and it was a virtualo fountain of opportunity......Get out and socialize - as Bostoncouple stated above, "serendipty" is what it's all about, - and you could start with the bar of a higher-end business hotel (or a hotel where traveling sports teams stay when on the road) - just go there for a drink during the week when the businessmen are the primary occupants of the rooms in the hotel and will be at the bar in the evening, and horny. Just go and see how you like it, keep the expectations under control. See if your wife likes the envionment there, and get up to the bar where people talk and bodies can come in contact.

Being able to watch and interact with people in the flesh, so to speak, is the way to go. Responding to ads and other online stuff wastes too much time and may never pan out. Besides, once you raise the idea of going to a bar or other in-person socializing opportunity with your wife you are going to find out real quick if she's really commited OR if she's just been playing along stroking your libido with no intention of enjoying the attention of other men. It gets you hard and horny, but may not be something she'd do. And if she's comfortable going without you, your odds just improved dramatically. Why fuck around with responding to ads and endless communications and preliminary meetings and all that? You'll die of old age before you score. And never forget: your wife is the one who will be admitting a penis into her, with all the risk that entails. It's a big step from fantasy (here, in this forum) to reality (in the hotel room with a guy she doesn't know real well yet).


My wife and I have actually met with a few guys and had a great time definitely does take some patience. But I think the bars are also another interesting way to meet guys for the wife