One evening, my wife and I started telling stories from the past, and what she was telling me really turned me on. In her early twenties, after breaking up with her first boyfriend, she met a married man fifteen years her senior at the gym. He was courting her, but she had just become single and just wanted to have fun, so she accepted his advances and they met secretly. She was young and inexperienced, and he used her and let her fantasies run wild. She enjoyed feeling used without commitment, so as soon as he called her, she ran to him. She said they had sex in unusual places and that he had introduced her to anal sex for the first time. She was very excited as she told this story.