What to do now

[coastalkid]

Its been almost a week since your discovery. You should take out the trash when she's watching you. Then come back and tell her that last week the garbage had been knocked over and you found condoms on the ground. Seeing how she couldn't know the bag became untied, you could propose some kids in the neighborhood must have disposed their evidence in your trash. Then carefully watch her reaction.

 

[HotwifeLover1]

Its been almost a week since your discovery. You should take out the trash when she's watching you. Then come back and tell her that last week the garbage had been knocked over and you found condoms on the ground. Seeing how she couldn't know the bag became untied, you could propose some kids in the neighborhood must have disposed their evidence in your trash. Then carefully watch her reaction.

Maybe he doesn't want her to know about his discovery, maybe he's just thrilled by the knowledge she is getting the shit fucked out of her on a regular basis.

 

[coastalkid]

Maybe he doesn't want her to know about his discovery, maybe he's just thrilled by the knowledge she is getting the shit fucked out of her on a regular basis.

Good point, let sleeping dogs lie, right?

But eventually if it continues, doesn't that thrill give way to doubts about her commitment to him? Seems like the longer you let it go the more difficult it gets to approach it. If he says nothing about his discovery and he sees condoms in the trash routinely for months, or years wouldn't that gnaw at his mind? I would think that resentment could grow from being left out of the fun and a potentially more serious confrontation would come along.

If he digs this, then isn't the whole stumbling block for this letting your wife know you're not only cool with it, you get off on it? That seems to be breaking point, talking about it seriously, not during sex, but clear headed with no misunderstandings (as best can be done). Somehow, barring being visually caught in the act, a way has to be found that doesn't lay any blame to open a conversation. Feelings can get "entrenched" and be more difficult to change over time that are harder to get over.

I'm projecting, just my thoughts. It's fun to put yourself in that place and think about what you'd do.

 

[HotwifeLover1]

Good point, let sleeping dogs lie, right?

But eventually if it continues, doesn't that thrill give way to doubts about her commitment to him? Seems like the longer you let it go the more difficult it gets to approach it. If he says nothing about his discovery and he sees condoms in the trash routinely for months, or years wouldn't that gnaw at his mind? I would think that resentment could grow from being left out of the fun and a potentially more serious confrontation would come along.

If he digs this, then isn't the whole stumbling block for this letting your wife know you're not only cool with it, you get off on it? That seems to be breaking point, talking about it seriously, not during sex, but clear headed with no misunderstandings (as best can be done). Somehow, barring being visually caught in the act, a way has to be found that doesn't lay any blame to open a conversation. Feelings can get "entrenched" and be more difficult to change over time that are harder to get over.

I'm projecting, just my thoughts. It's fun to put yourself in that place and think about what you'd do.

You're assuming he's a Cuckold, maybe he doesn't want to be involved in the fun ,maybe he knows she would shut it down if she discovered he knew.

I'm sure he's completely secure about her commitment to him.

 

[Sgt Ray]

Good point, let sleeping dogs lie, right?

But eventually if it continues, doesn't that thrill give way to doubts about her commitment to him? Seems like the longer you let it go the more difficult it gets to approach it. If he says nothing about his discovery and he sees condoms in the trash routinely for months, or years wouldn't that gnaw at his mind? I would think that resentment could grow from being left out of the fun and a potentially more serious confrontation would come along.

If he digs this, then isn't the whole stumbling block for this letting your wife know you're not only cool with it, you get off on it? That seems to be breaking point, talking about it seriously, not during sex, but clear headed with no misunderstandings (as best can be done). Somehow, barring being visually caught in the act, a way has to be found that doesn't lay any blame to open a conversation. Feelings can get "entrenched" and be more difficult to change over time that are harder to get over.

I'm projecting, just my thoughts. It's fun to put yourself in that place and think about what you'd do.

She so obviously wants him to know! Otherwise she'd have flushed or taken better steps to hide/dispose of them. Cud be she's cucking him already

 

[Nemo]

She so obviously wants him to know! Otherwise she'd have flushed or taken better steps to hide/dispose of them. Cud be she's cucking him already

Another take is that she just has poor op-sec, or it was the lover who chucked them in the bin (perhaps hoping hubby would find them?). The not knowing for sure is what can make being cheated on so hot,

 

[Sgt Ray]

Next she "accidentally texts him a pic if her sucking her bulls big cock....
Opps!

 

[coastalkid]

Next she "accidentally texts him a pic if her sucking her bulls big cock....
Opps!

Accidents happen all the time!

 

[Sgt Ray]

Accidents happen all the time!

Then she'd have him cucked completely.
And I think hedlike that...

 

[2wheel]

I was cleaning my late wife's car for her and in the trunk, in a plastic bag buried in the bottom of a box of stuff she has, was a tube of lube. I had given her permission to fuck/suck anyone she wanted with the caveat that if I ask she tell me what I want to know. So I asked her, denial. This was about 2010. I asked many times and told her she wasn't being honest.

Then about 2016 she she said she did. I kinda of remember the time frame. She was going to her chiropractor 2-3 times a week. Then she says he wants to see her everyday as her back is in bad shape. At the time I didn't think anything of it. So during the 'confession' she asks me if I remember that time period, I say yes. Then she said she started to play with another patient. How often? She said not often enough but several times a week. A few times, several times in one day. I had no idea! How clueless I was. I asked her why she stopped, she said cause I found out. She said if I didn't say anything she would have continued. She added that they were getting ready to include his friends to their playtime. Holy shit! I asked why she wouldn't consider the 'friends' thing with us, she said I live with you. I never understood that answer. I asked why she even did it, she said I did something at the time to ******** her off, but couldn't remember what.

Being that clueless, I wonder how many sloppy seconds I had and how many creampies I ate. Do I have regrets about it - only one - that I wasn't included in what was going on. So much sexual fuel gone to waste, I would have gladly and knowingly be her second and done cleanup.

After that 'confession' she denied it ever happened and refused to even acknowledge that she had admitted it but added if she did it was made up to shut me up. "You die with the lie".


To PowerTower. If she has had sex with someone else you ARE a cuckold.The husand has ZERO control of it, it is completely up to the wife.

You need to decide:
did it make you sad or glad?
if you confront her what do you if she denies it? what if she admits it?
Do you REALLY want to know more information or is her enjoyment enough?

 

[HotwifeLover1]

I was cleaning my late wife's car for her and in the trunk, in a plastic bag buried in the bottom of a box of stuff she has, was a tube of lube. I had given her permission to fuck/suck anyone she wanted with the caveat that if I ask she tell me what I want to know. So I asked her, denial. This was about 2010. I asked many times and told her she wasn't being honest.

Then about 2016 she she said she did. I kinda of remember the time frame. She was going to her chiropractor 2-3 times a week. Then she says he wants to see her everyday as her back is in bad shape. At the time I didn't think anything of it. So during the 'confession' she asks me if I remember that time period, I say yes. Then she said she started to play with another patient. How often? She said not often enough but several times a week. A few times, several times in one day. I had no idea! How clueless I was. I asked her why she stopped, she said cause I found out. She said if I didn't say anything she would have continued. She added that they were getting ready to include his friends to their playtime. Holy shit! I asked why she wouldn't consider the 'friends' thing with us, she said I live with you. I never understood that answer. I asked why she even did it, she said I did something at the time to ******** her off, but couldn't remember what.

Being that clueless, I wonder how many sloppy seconds I had and how many creampies I ate. Do I have regrets about it - only one - that I wasn't included in what was going on. So much sexual fuel gone to waste, I would have gladly and knowingly be her second and done cleanup.

After that 'confession' she denied it ever happened and refused to even acknowledge that she had admitted it but added if she did it was made up to shut me up. "You die with the lie".


To PowerTower. If she has had sex with someone else you ARE a cuckold.The husand has ZERO control of it, it is completely up to the wife.

You need to decide:
did it make you sad or glad?
if you confront her what do you if she denies it? what if she admits it?
Do you REALLY want to know more information or is her enjoyment enough?

Wonderful post

 

[dickhurtz]

ii wonder what is going on.

 

[Sgt Ray]

Wonderful post

A great touch on reality. Yup, by virtue of u telling she had a permanent hall pass, me became a de-facto cuckold to her.
And she was fucking another guy, so it was done. Her not remembering is probably a reflex reaction to get outed now.
Gotta tell her, ASSURE her its ok by you.
You WANT to be cuckolded

 

[Discretefun66]

She so obviously wants him to know! Otherwise she'd have flushed or taken better steps to hide/dispose of them. Cud be she's cucking him already

I have to agree with you, I do not believe her disposing them in the trash was an accident. If was that is pretty careless of a cheating wife who wants her affairs to remain a secret. Also, she has an open box in her drawer where her husband can easily find them? Something is not adding up here.

 

[Sgt Ray]

She WANTS to get caught, so she can cuckold him! Something like this:
"Yes, the condoms are from another man who fucked me on our bed. He always has me suck him hard again and fucks me a second time.
Like a real man with a big cock does with a woman.
She's set the trap. His response/ reply will let her know that she can cuckold him from then on.
Smart lady. He's fucked.

 

[dickhurtz]

I have been turned on by the cuckolding lifestyle for quite a while now and it is definitely a regular part of my porn watching. I have been interested in what it would be like to be part of it but have not imagined that my wife would be into anything like this. I am still too nervous to actually bring it up even though I have recently found evidence that she is likely cheating on me. I have mixed feelings that about her cheating versus wanting to be cuckolded. But overall I enjoy the thought of her being with someone else even if she is doing it in secret.

I found out by chance on garbage day. I was leaving for work in the morning and the garbage lid had been knocked off by the wind and the can fell over. As I cleaned it up a small grocery bag was tied up and shoved into the can. Curious about it, I untied it and found that it had and empty box of magnum XL condoms, tissues and several of the used condoms in it.

who accumulates used condoms?

 

[Sgt Ray]

who accumulates used

who accumulates used condoms?

Haven't we been thru this once already? In THIS very thread?? Come on...