When lover is a jerk but he is all you've got

[calicolombia69]

She met this guy exactly 2 yrs ago when we were frequenting the local bars. Sex was 2-3 times a week for the first 2 months and he was great in the sack. Also good girth for her. At 52yrs of age, she has suddenly become more risque and taking to sucking and swallowing him almost every time they are together.

Problem is that his job and leisure time are more important, as is her behavior. My wife is a crazy latina, ...... of 4 and grandmother of 4 more. Slight resemblance to Lauren Sanchez (Bezos wife) with fake tits and ass, and Kristi Noem with her fake hair extensions and eye lashes. Similar age.

So she is a high drama latina but also a sensation in bed. Problem is that this guy has thin skin and cannot take her jokes or teasing. He easily gets upset and will ghost her for 3 weeks at a time. He promises trips and has yet to take her even to a local hotel. Sex and dinner at always at his place. Has only taken her to dinner 3 times in 2 years.

She has certainly been looking for replacements. Finds them but they just dont measure up sex wise. So she goes back to her jerk. He seems to know that she worships his cock and uses it as a weapon or prize. In other words, if she has been on perfect behavior that week, she gets cock, otherwise, she is punished.

She is aware that she is putting up with abusive behavor. After periods of being dry and desperate, I also relent and tell her to accept his next invitation and go and get herself fucked and drink cum. Its like we are both in an abusive relationship with a bull!

He doesnt know that Im a willing cuck but I think that is besides the point.

 

[Iio fun]

Well its better to have another bull even if the new bull is not great like him. At least you both get better time not worrying if the bull gets upset

 

[calicolombia69]

Well its better to have another bull even if the new bull is not great like him. At least you both get better time not worrying if the bull gets upset

Yes, she has definitely tried. But majority are truly worthless or mediocre at best. One good alternative is married.

So he finally sets up a time and place to meet here, but then goes on a tear about how she dresses to go out (he sees her SM). Sure, she dresses slutty even to go to walmart. But its like the guy is more concerned that his occassional lover is dressed approriately than fucking her! So he pissess her off and date gets cancelled.
Others pretend not to be married but misteriously dissapear. Or they are suddenly available for an impromptu date.
Other (met online) take her for a drink that lasts 4 hours with not even dinner. They are trying to get pussy but cant even throw in an extra $100 for a dinner for 2.

Im dissapointed because now at 52, she is trying to make up for time. I counted and its like 50-60 guys in 25 years. That is only 2 guys per year. Her goal is not quantity but quality. yet she seems to be striking out on both counts

 

[Iio fun]

Thats really frustrating. Does she work? She can find among her workmates although from what you said seems you tried everything to find a good bull. Sometimes you have to lower your standards as this happens to us too me and my wife.

 

[calicolombia69]

Thats really frustrating. Does she work? She can find among her workmates although from what you said seems you tried everything to find a good bull. Sometimes you have to lower your standards as this happens to us too me and my wife.

She has 3 other latina slut friends around here. One of them fucks anything that moves. But she hardly has 2nd dates. Wife has indeed pointed out that here slutty friend has really low standards. I think to myself: yes but she IS getting laid, and you are NOT!

I personally get a bigger thrill from when its a long term guy because we play de denial part with me, she gets all wet and sweaty when she is preparing for a date with a long termer, you get the over-nights which mean having sex about 7 times straight.

This guy has been good for her sexwise. She sucks and swallows like a co-ed; which was very rare for her. He gives her those squrting orgasms too. She also lets him record the blowjob sessions. So, she has turned a blind eye to his egocentrism. But enough is enough.

Why should a hot latina MILF with fake ass and boobs have to plead for a bit of cock?....

 

[Cuckcoupleforfun]

Leave his ass

 

[Iio fun]

She has 3 other latina slut friends around here. One of them fucks anything that moves. But she hardly has 2nd dates. Wife has indeed pointed out that here slutty friend has really low standards. I think to myself: yes but she IS getting laid, and you are NOT!

I personally get a bigger thrill from when its a long term guy because we play de denial part with me, she gets all wet and sweaty when she is preparing for a date with a long termer, you get the over-nights which mean having sex about 7 times straight.

This guy has been good for her sexwise. She sucks and swallows like a co-ed; which was very rare for her. He gives her those squrting orgasms too. She also lets him record the blowjob sessions. So, she has turned a blind eye to his egocentrism. But enough is enough.

Why should a hot latina MILF with fake ass and boobs have to plead for a bit of cock?....

I totaly agree. I hope she will find one soon that makes her and you happy. The way you talking about your wife says she is sexy ans chances she will find someone better is high. So hope for the best.

 

[calicolombia69]

I totaly agree. I hope she will find one soon that makes her and you happy. The way you talking about your wife says she is sexy ans chances she will find someone better is high. So hope for the best.

Thanks for the good wishes!