When was the first time you realised cuckolding was a ‘thing’?

Before leaving England and moving to New York, I knew nothing about the lifestyle. I was a virgin, young, travelling alone for the first time away from my rural country village void of any diversity. I can tell you hubby knew nothing about the lifestyle before he got married to his first wife. By the time I met him, he had a very defined idea of who he wanted in his life after the failed marriage. He was introduced to a very liberating lifestyle and did not want to stuff the genie back in the box.

I was young 19, lived a sheltered life, now on my own in New York City and wanted very much to explore as much diversity as I could. The guy that took my virginity on the upper westside, was white, with a 7-inch cock. I did not remember much as I was drunk, but I did go back for more the next day and enjoyed that and remembered it. Then I met my husband, and the sex and ideas were liberating. No need to pretend, no need to hide my feelings and what I wanted.

We loved reggae and started hanging out at reggae clubs. I can still remember my first BBC. Micky had a fat 9-inch cock. I had never felt anything like it, the intensity, hardness, and the stamina. I was so turned on, I was in NYC and a black man was inside me, pounding me, going deeper than ever before and I was having one orgasm after another. I was being used by both my boyfriend, now husband and a BBC we met at the bar. I was young and scared the next morning not knowing what hubby would think of me, but it was all normal and exciting to him and he made me feel normal and excited as a result and I wanted more and I started planning for more.
Wow nice. Thanks for sharing. Are you both into it now as well.
 
I had been sharing my wife for about 10 years when I first got a computer. I was obsessed with the porn you could find on there and it wasn't long before I came across the word cuckolding for the first time. It wasn't quite the same as we had been doing for 10 years but it was the nearest to it that I could find.
 
Never heard the term until recently when it started to be used as a political insult by right-wingers. But I remember a long time ago at a drunken party seeing my ex-father-in-law leering at his wife slow-dancing with a guy she clearly had a crush on… I was utterly baffled by this behavior. Years later I realized this was a very common kink especially among couples who’s been married a long time.
 
with me is was at the end of high school and my girlfriend was fucking around on me I found out and didn't want to lose her she was a great fuck so I told her she could still fuck these guys. things still ended but from then on I have wanted my gfs to fuck other guys to the point where I have begged for some of them to have guys come to the house to fuck them. It worked.
 
with me is was at the end of high school and my girlfriend was fucking around on me I found out and didn't want to lose her she was a great fuck so I told her she could still fuck these guys. things still ended but from then on I have wanted my gfs to fuck other guys to the point where I have begged for some of them to have guys come to the house to fuck them. It worked.
I was surprised how hard it was to convince any of the women I asked to have sex with another guy.
Most were more concerned about how I would react.
My current wife agreed to swapping. I didn't mind but it was hard to watch her get laid if I was working on another woman
 
I live far away from my wife and we use to do calls and sometimes we had verbally sex while doing it we decide to watch porn together by sharing screen.so talking while porn we use to talk dirty or about the video...I love if she watches porn and get horney. that make my fantasy
 
It was years ago before we were married. We were at a party and I watched as my then girlfriend flirted with a good looking guy. A little later I saw them go upstairs where the bedrooms were. About 30 minutes later he came down the stairs and I saw him wink at his friends. They laughed. About 15 minutes later my girlfriend came down the stairs and walked over to me. She grabbed my hand and said " Are you having a good time" Humiliated but with a hardon I said "Yes" She walked away and has ruled me since.
 
In high school I had suspicions that my girlfriend was cheating on me, but I was surprised to find myself fantasizing about watching them rather than being angry. I felt dirty about it and kept it hidden out of shame for a long while. In retrospect I think I have always wanted to be a cuckold... even when I fantasized about sex as a young man, it was never me doing the fucking, it was me on the side watching it happen. Once I had my own place and started surfing for porn I found message boards and websites that helped me realize I was neither unique nor a pervert.
 
In high school I had suspicions that my girlfriend was cheating on me, but I was surprised to find myself fantasizing about watching them rather than being angry. I felt dirty about it and kept it hidden out of shame for a long while. In retrospect I think I have always wanted to be a cuckold... even when I fantasized about sex as a young man, it was never me doing the fucking, it was me on the side watching it happen. Once I had my own place and started surfing for porn I found message boards and websites that helped me realize I was neither unique nor a pervert.
its very hot seeing your woman, doing what another guy wants her to do
 
When my traditionally conservative ex-wife got interested in the swinger lifestyle after watching Eyes Wide Shut. We went to a couple of parties and engaged in same room sex in front of other couples as a means of dipping our toes in the water. We eventually met a couple that we both found attractive and wanted to take it a step further. When it finally happened, I found that I was as much, if not more, turned on watching another man sliding his cock into her mouth as I was with feeling his wife's lips around mine.
 
When was the first time you remember realising what we know as cuckolding was something men and women enjoyed? I don’t just mean ‘when did your wife make you a cuckold’ that’s been discussed lots of times, I mean when did the penny drop that people got a kick out of their partner having sex with someone else?
Was it a movie or a song ? Or was it a comment about a wife ‘putting it about ‘ and her husband not minding or a personal experience -something someone introduced you to? Or was it a discovery of a whole genre of porn and discussion forums that explore this subject.
Personally my eyes were opened by an older lady. I was 16 buying my first pair of jeans and she came into the changing rooms. My cock was hard in a millisecond and she soon realised I was a virgin and gave me my first blowjob- I reckon lasted all of 20 seconds!! She told me to come back for a second lesson and I was back the next day! She took me upstairs to the stock room and I had my first proper fuck. She was a big breasted blond in her 40’s and wasted no time showing me how to fuck get hairy Pusey. I was in heaven and came twice without even getting soft. Her pussy was absolutely dripping with my cum. She pulled her panties up and hurried downstairs. When I followed a few minutes later I asked the other shop assistant where she had gone. She told me she’d gone home to her husband- I was panicking, I thought I was in trouble but she said ‘don’t worry, he loves it, the fuller and fresher the better. He’ll probably want to watch next time!!’
It was the first time I had ever heard of such a thing but the erotic charge it gave me fuelled an obsession for the rest of my life.
How about you?
Wow. What a hot story.
 
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She said don't touch me down there,I did when she got into bed it was more wet then I ever felt before it did not take me long to get her hot.i got my first sloppy seconds that night.
She said her and her friend danced with 2 guys,they had to do more then that I knew her pussy was full of cum.she was suppose to be home by midnight she got home at 4 what do u think.
 
I only learned about it pretty recently. Growing up, it wasn’t something I could remotely comprehend. In fact, I was jealous, and figured everyone else was. But I remember one time during my first marriage at a drunken party at my in-laws house, watching my mother-in-law dance erratically with a family friend while my father-in-law leered at them, I kept waiting for him to get mad, but he was clearly enjoying it. I think that was the first time I got a notion that it might be kind of a turn on.
 
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I mentioned earlier in this thread that I found out that cuckolding was "a thing" via Penthouse forum, etc. A better story is how did I find out I was into this strange "thing". It likely started when I was dating a girl in my first year of college. She was my age but far more mature than me. Very attractive brunette, B/C cups, lovely hairy bush. We fucked a couple of times, and she was very into giving oral - sucked me dry several times, once 5x in one night. She broke it off after about a month, but we stayed friends. She invited me to a party and her new bf was there. Guy was very different to me - tall, broad, built, rough around the edges. At the party I overheard some of her friends talking about "her new bf" and one of them said "yeah he's just a fling, she's only dating him for his big dick - she told me so". Followed by a graphic discussion of how the guy was very hung and lasted a long time and had apparently fucked several of the other girls at the party. While listening, I found myself with the biggest raging hard-on of my life. I LITERALLY nearly came in my pants listening to these girls talking about the huge cock my ex was fucking, and how he fucked like an animal. I found a bathroom and furiously jerked off and came in seconds. And went back to the party,... and was hard again the moment I saw my ex-gf, with his arms around her. As everyone here can relate, that evening provided jerk material for many, many years.