I think stevens4fun nailed it. when it finally happens, you want and need more. You think about it all the time for sure. You have to be secure in your manhood and be willing to explore new things. More importantly, find a wife willing to do the same. Women are wired differently than men. There needs to be some sort of connection for a woman. Men, not so much....It is a thrill to watch her please other men. That is why we are on here, lets be honest.