Who likes receiving anal sex?

NH1980

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Was going to post a question but saw this thread so thought I’d add to it.

This is a genuine question about the reality of anal sex - can it really be spontaneous, how much preparation and training is needed.

I should add that I’m not a practicing cuckold or bull, I just like the fantasy, so read a lot.

Many of the stories, even ones claiming to be real events, include spontaneous anal sex, the willing hot-wife usually on the receiving end but sometimes the whimpering cuckold.

It makes great stories with real hot lines like

Cuckold - “you have never done anal with me, whenever I have asked you have said no”
Hot-Wife with a wicked smile - “but he didn’t ask”

But what is the reality, my wife and I have never done anal, but we have done a little anal play, fingers, plugs, beads and there have always been theee constants no matter how prepared we thought we had been, initial discomfort that you have to slowly and gently ease past, poo and smell.

I can only imagine that a well endowed bull thrusting into a virgin anus is going to result in pain, tearing and blood for the hot-wife or cuckold. And the bull will be left with blood and poo on his cock and a smell that lingers so much it can only be removed by soaking it in petrol. Bad enough if it is the hot wife’s but I can imagine that many bulls would want a cuckold’s poo on his dick.

It clearly happens, I’ve seen plenty of videos but I can only imagine it takes loads of training and plenty of preparation - I find the spontaneous stories hot but pretty hard to believe.

There is also the health issue, transferring bacteria between anus and vagina (though I can believe that gets forgotten in the heat of the moment) and damage - it is not uncommon to see porn stars that do anal who look otherwise fantastic but have an anal ring resembling a cauliflower.

As I said, totally genuine question, would be interested to hear whether I have it about right or have totally missed the mark.
 
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majorem

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Was going to post a question but saw this thread so thought I’d add to it.

This is a genuine question about the reality of anal sex - can it really be spontaneous, how much preparation and training is needed.

After we had been dating for a year or two I started fingering my wife's ass while going down on her and she loved it. First just 1-2, then 3, then butt plugs or sometimes I'd slip a couple fingers in her ass during sex. Eventually we did anal and she quite enjoyed it. I remember one morning when she woke me up by straddling me and inserting my cock into her ass without even any lube, then riding me to an orgasm.

There was a time when she was often kind of stressed with work that the only sure way to put her over the edge to make her cum was with anal and we ended up having anal sex more than vaginal.

Can you just spontaneously have anal the first time though? Maybe? but definitely not as likely to work out. I mean, when you think about it, people often take shits the size of an avg cock or bigger haha, so its not like there isn't the room up there. It's all a matter of learning to relax and accept something going in the other direction. How turned on the woman is and how nervous she is about anal are going to be big factors as to whether it will work out. Even then you'd have to go slow and let her relax around the incoming cock. Alcohol helps as it relaxes muscles.

I'm sure some women are naturally going to have an easier time with it than others though. My wife still claims she was an anal virgin when we met but it was quite a lot easier having anal with her than my prior girlfriend so. I would say I do mostly believe her as I feel like after all these years and her now knowing her prior sluttiness turns me on, that she'd tell me but who knows... On the other hand, I have a gay friend who says he can't believe anyone actually enjoys anal and I'm sure he wishes he could... so I think a lot of it is individual physiology.

There is also the health issue, transferring bacteria between anus and vagina (though I can believe that gets forgotten in the heat of the moment) and damage - it is not uncommon to see porn stars that do anal who look otherwise fantastic but have an anal ring resembling a cauliflower.

You definitely want to wash your cock well before going back into the pussy. I think cauliflower ass is more likely a result of age and pregnancy. Despite plenty of anal, my wife had a perfect asshole until she pushed out a kid. Now it's not so easily.
 
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we tried when we first got together young but she didnt like it. my wife wouldnt do it for years and years. then a few of her more liberal friends convinced her to try again i can see she enjoys it without hewr even telling me, its obvious. its very nice for a treat but we dont do it very often and that suits us both fine; i love cumming in her pussy.
 
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Loridan

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While dating I did her butt once, lots of lube, I'm about half way in pumped like 3 pumps, she says stop. She says she tried before and didn't like it.
Married 20 years, tried anal, with her pretty drunk, never went well....all good.
Befor I was married I tried to butt fuck every girl I was with, most said no, a couple were into it....whatever.
About 4 years ago we get into mfm with a guy we know, our.....her mostly...midlife adventures, I have no complaints.
It's become a pretty regular deal for us 2 or 3 times a month. During covid it was 3 or 4 times a week.
We'd done it with him I'd say 15 or so times over about a year, we were pretty comfy with it.
One night he's doing her from behind, like he(we) did every time, he reaches for the lube, again normal, says "they" are going to try "the back door" his words. I'm thinking no way. He lubbed his dick, starts to lube her butt hole, I knew she say no but she just stayed there with her butt up. He slides a finger in, she says woha, he kept at it for a few. He gets lined up and starts to push in, she let's out a loud grunt, he went SLOW. She's grunting and soon he's in up to his balls. She's just letting him. He starts SLOW full lengh pumps she grunts as he pushes in and pulls out. He went for maybe two minutes like 20 or so SLOW pumps then starts to cum. He holds it in her butt, her eyes are wide her mouth open. He pulls out, she rolls over and says wow. I'm thinking wtf just happened??? I was damn hot to watch but what the hell ?
She's good with anal now, he fucks her butt every time he visits, I've done it many times too.