Who was wifes 1st? How did it happen?

I told my wife this fantasy and a few months later we started this journey. I have never picked a lover for my wife, she is the one having sex, so she gets to pick.

I became a cuckold on my birthday. She was with him while I was at work and she told me that night at dinner. She was meeting and playing Pokémon Go with a man, and after I told her the fantasy, she started looking at him in a different way. Once she decided it was going to be him, it was close to my birthday, so she waited for that day. She went to met him as usual for Pokémon Go but she was dressed up. He asked her why and she told him of my fantasy and she wanted him to be the one. So they went to his place and I became a cuckold.
My wife also first did the deed on my birthday. Wasn’t setup as a birthday gift, it’s just the first time they could get together. I was at work and she went to his place during the day. She also did it on our sons birthday a few months later. Guess she liked birthday sex.
 
My wife, Paula, and I had gone on a date to see a show at a bar downtown. Afterward, the two of us struck up a conversation with another couple, Charles and Aubrey. We had a lot in common and after about 30 minutes of chatting and having fun, we decided to take it to a different brewery not too far away. We had maybe another couple more rounds of drinks...the whole time my wife is talking to Charles and they are having a good time. At some point, it comes up that Charles and Aubrey were swingers and they were very interested in us coming back to their hotel room with them. My wife and I looked at each other and for whatever reason, we just clicked and said "yes."

From this point on, Paula and Charles were all over each other. Open-mouth kissing, her running her hand up his leg to touch his cock. And I was having just an equally fun time with Aubrey, but I was just so turned on by watching Paula make out with another man. We finished up our drinks and made our way to the hotel.

We hit that bar and the whole time they kept asking us if we were sure we were prepared to go and have sex with each other. At one point, Paula and Aubrey went off to the women's room (and ended up making out in there). After a bottle of champagne, we finally made it up to their room. And ALL our clothes came off.

I started in on Aubrey's pussy and managed to glance over and watched Charles bury his face in my wife's cunt. In hindsight, I kinda backed off and just wanted to watch Paula. Over the next 90 minutes, I watched her suck Charles' cock and eat Aubrey's pussy. But nothing could compare to watching him fuck her HARD. He literally railed my wife in every imaginable position for an hour. Missionary. Doggie. Her on top. And I just laid there next to her jacking my cock while listening to the two of them moan in ecstasy.

He came in her the first time, withdrew his cock, and proceeded the finger her...I am assuming swirling his cum up inside her cervix. The whole time, Aubrey was at her mouth, kissing her deeply. I snuck off to go to their hotel room bathroom and when I came back, Paula was back up on top of Charles, riding his cock and grinding her clit against him. This continued until I watched the two of them nearly cum together, only finishing when Charles deposited another load of cum up inside my wife's wet pussy.

Both Paula and I got dressed; Charles and Aubrey continued to stand right there in front of us completely naked. I could not help myself looking at his dick and thinking about it sliding in and out of my wife. To this day, I regretfully wish that I had taken the opportunity to suck him off - tasting Paula's pussy juice all over his shaft and balls. Before saying "bye," Charles took Paula into his arms and kissed her hard; I did the same with Aubrey (however, I secretly think she would have preferred Paula too.)

That was our first...of several times at this point. We still talk about them, especially when we're fucking. Paula knows one of the fastest ways to get me off is for her to talk about Charles and how good he fucked her that night.
 
Who did you let your wife fuck the first time? How did it actually happen? Was is a plan or just somthing that was not planned at all?
My wife told me on our first date that she needed a guy that would be faithful to her while she fucked anyone anyone she wanted anytime she wanted. If I wanted her pussy I would have to deal with it.. She was also the jealous type she would never put up with being disrespected.. Her words gave me an instant hard on.. She said she thought so.. I asked her if that's what she wanted to force me, not to give me a choice. She said she wouldn't but there would be no going back no matter how much I might change my mind or hate it. She would make me as jealous and insecure as she possibly could.. She was still fucking an ex boyfriend who was thick and over 8 inches.. She measured my little 6 inch cock and laughed at me.. She fucked me every day for 10 days then told me she was going out with him on Friday night. I was to stay home naked and not go out.. I said I didn't think I was ready yet. She said she didn't give a shit, that I was to addicted to her and her pussy I wouldn't risk never seeing her again. She needed a real cock soon.. She also said she wears the pants in our relationship and I need a lot of pussy whipping train starting with whenever we were in a car together she was doing the driving.. It wasn't long before I realized the more submissive I was to her, the more she embarrassment and humiliation I took from her the closer I felt to her and the more I wanted her.. We watched femdom porn it wasn't very long before I asked her to fuck me in the ass with a thick 8 inch dildo, not allow me to cum with out her permission, boss me around and eat out her deep asshole as a sign of respect and worship.. She had me eating my own cum from her spoon and making me swallow every drop when ever she allowed me to cum.. At times she would make me hold it for weeks sometimes others she made me cum 3 times a day depending on her wishes.. That start over 20 years ago.. I am even more honored for the privilege of serving my Goddess todays then I was then...