It all depends on the guy she pics and the chemistry they have together. In my case I was looking for a stud that had a large cock that was attached to a fit guy.
Of the utmost importance was that he was intelligent, well groomed/dressed etc.
Of course he had to know how to make love to a woman and in my case yes we make love. My one lover is staying with us during the coronavirus, has been with us for 4 weeks now and has moved into our martial bed. Hubby sleeps in one of our guest rooms and is happy with the arrangement.
Having a husband that is supportive is also a major item to make this lifestyle work for you two (or three actually).
I'm laying in bed now with my lover and hubby is downstairs making us breakfast in bed. How wonderful is that. After we eat we will have a prolonged sexual session. In our case hubby does the cleanup role which turns us all on. Not into that? Ok it's what works for YOU !!
My sex life it AMAZING, as I never had sex with a man with a large cock, once I did there was NO going back, The feeling I get is hard to describe it's just amazing.
The feeling of fullness makes me orgasm like I never had before (hubby is 5" and my lover is a thick 9")
Communication is what is important to the married couple in my opinion, no secrets keep it all out in the open. That way there are NO surprises to anyone and it makes for a stronger marriage.
Feel free to ask any questions, and remember HAVE FUN, especially in this difficult time!!
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