Porn is both the sexual sustenance and poison of modern life. The porn that men like completely turns off many, if not all women—which makes sense, as so much of porn is brutal, brutally stupid plots and acting, brutal sexual scenarios, such as choking, stepping on heads, slapping, pulling cocks out of assholes and then plunging them into vaginas or mouths. Imagine your wife is thrilled by MMA fights and longs to see you in the cage, so she sends you videos showing guys being beaten savagely. Will these videos make you eager to fight?
For a man to want to have sex only two things are required: a partner and an opportunity. For most women to want to have sex at least two things are required: interest in the partner and an emotional connection. Porn will never help you here. In addition, you have the cart in front of the horse. Never mention anything sexual before she is sexually aroused. Sexual arousal dampens our disgust and repulsion instincts, which probably was essential to promoting the survival of our species; can you imagine how dirty and smelly cave people were? In other words, she will be much more susceptible to sexual suggestions when she is already turned on.
While making love, talk to her. Build her sexual self-confidence. Describe how you saw some man approvingly staring at her early that day. Reveal how much delight you take in her personality and body. When talking sex during sex, I have always used "defining" utterances, for example, "you are the sort of woman that makes men drunk with lust."
In addition, when I have sought new sexual experiences with a woman, I often talk past the sale; for example, we might be talking about threesomes and I would say, "Imagine we have been enjoying an MMF threesome with David, and you have thrilled at having two mouths kiss you at once, each of your nipples sucked at once, four masculine hands running over your naked flesh, a rigid cock held in each of your hands. You love kissing while your pussy is being licked. You adore all the attention he and I have bestowed on you and how we both long to enter you. You close your eyes and savor how our cocks feel different inside you. You love being made love to you in all your favorite positions. He adores your eagerness and sexual appetite and he is awed by lovely breasts and beautiful eyes. He has gotten drunk on your naked female body. His cock rejoices being inside your body, feeling your wetness and body heat. His cock swells extra stiff within you and he is about to orgasm, where do you want him to shoot his load, on your pussy? on your belly? on your breasts? on your face? Or in your pussy? His rigid cock pulsating and spurting deep inside you, filling you with his pent up lust and passion."
