Simular to your situation, exceptm y wife has NO CLUE i even take her pictures....knowing guys are getting off to her, gets me off. I just pray no one from work ever sees her pictures or recognizes her. I would totally be fucked!
the though of being recognized terrifies me....yet...it's also very exciting. I'm secretely hoping that someone recognizes her, but instead of making a fuzz about it he/she will ask for more 😉