So my wife finally got pregnant, and we are pretty excited. She found out a couple of days ago after feeling sick, and missing her period. We think its from our next door neighbor, and we did speak with him about the possibility. He said if it is him he is very happy to have helped us, and asked me to be a good dad for his ......, and to make my wife happy with anything she wants. He also told my wife that he would help with anything she needed, and told her he will remain in the baby’s life, being that we live next door, even though he wont try to speak about it. His wife and ...... also found out about it and came over to congratulate us, and i couldnt help but feel bad for his wife, since she knows nothing about this. I am excited and turned on however, of how the baby will look, maybe more like my wife, or more like him, it would be very strange for the baby to be blonde when i’m darker, and like i’ve said some of our family already knows of our lifestyle, so its going to be exciting to see how all of this goes.