Wife is afraid toys will feel too good

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My wife was reluctant to use a vibrator too often. Infrequently when she was in the "right" mood, we used it and the vibrations brought to very enjoyable organisms, but like your wife, she told me that she was afraid to use it too often, as she worried she might enjoy it better than me. Felt it might become addictive to the point where she didn't need me to satisfier her.
Eventually she admitted to me that she frequently used it solo when I was at work and found herself liking it too much. She finally asked me to get rid of it. The vibrator disappeared from our bedroom and not very long after was replaced by her 1st lover.
 
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My wife has only had one toy she uses. Her go to favorite is her Hitachi Magic Wand. I say "go to" but she never uses it to masturbate on her own. So obviously it's not such a draw that she has to have it. She only uses it when we have sex. She'll have several orgasms with it regularly, sometimes as many as a dozen. It still hasn't translated into wanting to try a dildo or her using it on her own.

People are different. I'm sure you've mentioned how she would know if she liked it "too much" without trying it first. I'm also pretty sure asking her that didn't go anywhere either.
Well my wife always said - vibrators don’t do anything - no one has them !!! - so she tried one - now she has fucking 5 of them - small - big - battery - mains and will tear the roof of with her orgasms - I laugh sometimes while she’s having post orgasm twitches that yeah they don’t work eh lol . She has a slack pussy so dildos didn’t do a lot and we tried a cock sleeve too - depends on the woman - think more like clit action than penetration - maybe try a cock dleeve 0298EF7B-2A43-41CF-A0B7-C91255406428.jpeg5DE1B8C0-ED03-4E9A-98D4-7076661355C0.jpeg
 
I have a big box full of toys, vibrators and dildos don’t really do much to enhance play. I do have a giant double ended rubbery ‘doubledong’ that is incredibly fat, it feels quite nice to insert it while playing with my clit as it feels nice when squeezing my pelvic floor muscles as I cum.

Everyone is unique, but I don’t think you need to worry about most women preferring toys over the real thing. My toys are more for putting on a show for the men in my life or occasionally when I have gone a long time without any good sex.

Like most women, I rarely cum during penetration, I need clit stimulation to cum, so the only toy I have that I actually get out regularly is a toy that sucks my clit, I often have 2 or 3 lovely O’s using that while hubby is fast asleep next to me.
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My wife used to decry vibrators - no one she knows had one or has ever tried one and they do nothing anyway etc . So I got her one and now she has about 5 - small / large battery ones - mains one - she has the best orgasms she’s ever had with them and was using them during the day when I was at work - to the extent that I wasn’t getting anything - so I fucking hid them lol . One pic I stuffed her panties in her pussy - sometimes she’s so taken with it I can even like slap her tits or really pull on her nipples etc and she just vibes away lol1EC12315-BDB2-4559-8167-8DB97A893DC8.jpeg
 

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