Wife said yes...what next?

[eg.hj]

Hi everyone.

My wife and I are both in our mid 30s and I've always fantasized about seeing her with another guy and sharing her. I was always a bit nervous to bring up my fantasy but after dropping some subtle hints here and there, the other night we were talking about fantasies and she mentioned how it would be hot to fuck another guy in front of me. She's always fantasized about threesomes with another girl and never really gave another guy too much thought. But seems to be getting turned on by the idea.

A bit about us, we've been together for five years and are very much in love. The sex is always great and super satisfying. Neither of us have much experience in this world but keen to get into it. She's told me that she's not a size queen at all (when i said I'd want her to fuck someone with a bigger dick, she said she doesn't really want that and isn't into that. Before we got together she told me that she had a streak of dating really hung guys and didnt enjoy it at all). When I fantasize about her and another guy, it's never a humiliation thing or this idea that someone else needs to satisfy her because I'm not capable, it's just more the idea of sharing her, joining in and watching her cum with another guy.

Would love to hear from couples, wives, husbands that have experience with this and what the next step was (where to look, setting things up and just how to go about finding the right person etc...).

 

[sterling]

We have done this for years and yes you will both enjoy it once you find the right guy. Good communication, if she is fertile good reliable birth control and don't jump on the first cock she finds....unless he passes the meet and greet test. Take your time to find the right one. If you have a good friend that you both like and she is into that it's a safe way to start although it can present some problems so make sure eveyone involved is on the same page that it's just good fun. We have found the sls website works somewhat although it is very hard to find anyone that is serious about more then a 1 time thing so it takes a while to vet the guy and find one that you both want to be the one. Lifestyle parties sometimes work and the people watching is always a lot of fun even if you don't hook up. Pretty much just take the time to find the right fit that she is comfortable with. Once you find that just let nature take it's course and enjoy the show.

 

[btweets]

Where about are you located?

 

[xShareHerx]

Maybe you should share a few photos of her so we can see what we're dealing with?

Yea share a few photos so we can see what we're dealing with

 

[Romey]

We have done this for years and yes you will both enjoy it once you find the right guy. Good communication, if she is fertile good reliable birth control and don't jump on the first cock she finds....unless he passes the meet and greet test. Take your time to find the right one. If you have a good friend that you both like and she is into that it's a safe way to start although it can present some problems so make sure eveyone involved is on the same page that it's just good fun. We have found the sls website works somewhat although it is very hard to find anyone that is serious about more then a 1 time thing so it takes a while to vet the guy and find one that you both want to be the one. Lifestyle parties sometimes work and the people watching is always a lot of fun even if you don't hook up. Pretty much just take the time to find the right fit that she is comfortable with. Once you find that just let nature take it's course and enjoy the show.

Condom?

 

[robbiewillsucku]

I would promise to hold her hand while the new guy fucks her pussy then lick her pussy clean to show her how much I wanted her to enjoy other cocks.

 

[TonyPeroni]

Hi everyone.

My wife and I are both in our mid 30s and I've always fantasized about seeing her with another guy and sharing her. I was always a bit nervous to bring up my fantasy but after dropping some subtle hints here and there, the other night we were talking about fantasies and she mentioned how it would be hot to fuck another guy in front of me. She's always fantasized about threesomes with another girl and never really gave another guy too much thought. But seems to be getting turned on by the idea.

A bit about us, we've been together for five years and are very much in love. The sex is always great and super satisfying. Neither of us have much experience in this world but keen to get into it. She's told me that she's not a size queen at all (when i said I'd want her to fuck someone with a bigger dick, she said she doesn't really want that and isn't into that. Before we got together she told me that she had a streak of dating really hung guys and didnt enjoy it at all). When I fantasize about her and another guy, it's never a humiliation thing or this idea that someone else needs to satisfy her because I'm not capable, it's just more the idea of sharing her, joining in and watching her cum with another guy.

Would love to hear from couples, wives, husbands that have experience with this and what the next step was (where to look, setting things up and just how to go about finding the right person etc...).

Talk to each other. A lot. About every aspect, especially any anxieties that either of you may have about how it would work and the potential impact on your relationship. It really is the key to successful cuckolding. When it comes to choice of guy, you need to discuss how that process should work - does she want to find the right guy on her own or does she want you to find him or does she want it to be something that you do together from start to finish? Often the big fist question is whether you want it to be someone you know or a stranger. There are pros and cons to both. The only way to find out what works for both of you is to talk it through. Another key aspect to discuss is what your role is to be - you say you want to watch, but do you always want to be present all of the time or would you be happy if she sometimes meets him alone, provided she tells you all about it afterwards. Mutual trust is a critical feature of good cuckolding relationships. Be very choosy about getting the right guy. You need to find someone who gets that cuckolding is a tripartite relationship and that all three of you have wants, needs and desires that have to be recognised and satisfied. There are a lot of guys who just see it as getting the chance to fuck someone else's wife - there is so much more to it than that. I have coached mean, women and couples who want to explore this fantastic lifestyle and there are lots of things to be considered. You don't need to discuss them all in advance, but you do need to communicate well with each other and be able to raise concerns and issues as soon as they arise. Feel free to ping me a private message if you have any questions.

 

[silkenquiver]

Before anything, set your goals and expectations together, starting with rules. Can she play alone? Is kissing okay? Snuggling? Creampies? What sex acts are out of bounds? Should you seek one long term boyfriend, numerous new dick adventures, or something in between?

Going by porn sites and written erotica, it seems like letting your wife have sex with other men is one thing, but it varies wildly. Some women are extremely choosy with their sex partners, others want to be told who to have sex with. Some want to emotionally bond and others are afraid of that.

I recommend deciding the least/safest minimum worth doing and the most extreme/risky you two would both be okay with. Then, start easy. Don’t leap straight to emotional bonds and pregnancy risks. Work up toward your wildest, so you can safely find your comfort point.

Above all, make it about HER pleasure. So long as that’s your focus, you can end up with a sexually fulfilling new lifestyle that lasts.

 

[InfantryScout7]

Hi everyone.

My wife and I are both in our mid 30s and I've always fantasized about seeing her with another guy and sharing her. I was always a bit nervous to bring up my fantasy but after dropping some subtle hints here and there, the other night we were talking about fantasies and she mentioned how it would be hot to fuck another guy in front of me. She's always fantasized about threesomes with another girl and never really gave another guy too much thought. But seems to be getting turned on by the idea.

A bit about us, we've been together for five years and are very much in love. The sex is always great and super satisfying. Neither of us have much experience in this world but keen to get into it. She's told me that she's not a size queen at all (when i said I'd want her to fuck someone with a bigger dick, she said she doesn't really want that and isn't into that. Before we got together she told me that she had a streak of dating really hung guys and didnt enjoy it at all). When I fantasize about her and another guy, it's never a humiliation thing or this idea that someone else needs to satisfy her because I'm not capable, it's just more the idea of sharing her, joining in and watching her cum with another guy.

Would love to hear from couples, wives, husbands that have experience with this and what the next step was (where to look, setting things up and just how to go about finding the right person etc...).

I'd gladly do her, if your willing.

 

[party]

Hi everyone.

My wife and I are both in our mid 30s and I've always fantasized about seeing her with another guy and sharing her. I was always a bit nervous to bring up my fantasy but after dropping some subtle hints here and there, the other night we were talking about fantasies and she mentioned how it would be hot to fuck another guy in front of me. She's always fantasized about threesomes with another girl and never really gave another guy too much thought. But seems to be getting turned on by the idea.

A bit about us, we've been together for five years and are very much in love. The sex is always great and super satisfying. Neither of us have much experience in this world but keen to get into it. She's told me that she's not a size queen at all (when i said I'd want her to fuck someone with a bigger dick, she said she doesn't really want that and isn't into that. Before we got together she told me that she had a streak of dating really hung guys and didnt enjoy it at all). When I fantasize about her and another guy, it's never a humiliation thing or this idea that someone else needs to satisfy her because I'm not capable, it's just more the idea of sharing her, joining in and watching her cum with another guy.

Would love to hear from couples, wives, husbands that have experience with this and what the next step was (where to look, setting things up and just how to go about finding the right person etc...).

hi i was wondering where your located at

 

[Bull4ladies]

Hi everyone.

My wife and I are both in our mid 30s and I've always fantasized about seeing her with another guy and sharing her. I was always a bit nervous to bring up my fantasy but after dropping some subtle hints here and there, the other night we were talking about fantasies and she mentioned how it would be hot to fuck another guy in front of me. She's always fantasized about threesomes with another girl and never really gave another guy too much thought. But seems to be getting turned on by the idea.

A bit about us, we've been together for five years and are very much in love. The sex is always great and super satisfying. Neither of us have much experience in this world but keen to get into it. She's told me that she's not a size queen at all (when i said I'd want her to fuck someone with a bigger dick, she said she doesn't really want that and isn't into that. Before we got together she told me that she had a streak of dating really hung guys and didnt enjoy it at all). When I fantasize about her and another guy, it's never a humiliation thing or this idea that someone else needs to satisfy her because I'm not capable, it's just more the idea of sharing her, joining in and watching her cum with another guy.

Would love to hear from couples, wives, husbands that have experience with this and what the next step was (where to look, setting things up and just how to go about finding the right person etc...).

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