Honestly, I feel like the spark to the glow is already there.... she's been dressing/looking very hot on the regular and we've been having awesome talks and sex. She loves the attention and confidence boost.
I've been jacking off to much recently because we're constantly discussing our limits, boundaries, dynamics, and sharing chats. We've discussed me withholding from jerking off, for the power dynamic of her controlling my release and having all my cum for herself.... no more wasting.