Any other couples involved in the lifestyle have the wife or gf bring it up first. My wife actually brought up having a fantasy of fu king black men for a long time. She brought it up while we were watching porn together. I told her how hot I thought that was and we talked more and more about. That’s what started us down this path. We rol played with black dildos started chatting with bulls on sites and eventually took the plunge. Now she can’t get enough. Sje said it is better than she ever imagined. She reslly gets off on the taboo of it and size is definitely a thing for work. Love to discuss with others.
