Worried for my wife

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Not sure where to start. But I am married 2 years to a beautiful girl we get on well and have a pretty good sex life not as intense as in the begining but satisfied.
My present worry stress is I have noticed my wife is extremely friendly with her co-workers and has the occasional drink after work with them usually about 6 of them.
So she never stays out long and only has 2 drinks as she is driving home, now it is twice a week, but lately she talks little things about one co-worker in particular, I have started to get worried as the after works drinks now involve her taking some different outer clothes to work to change before leaving the office.
She can come home wearing mini skirts and look beautiful with her long legs. Hair and make up perfect.
I am stressed that she might fancy this co-worker as some nights there are different workers but he never misses a night, I suggested going to meet her at the bar but she says no what would the others think
So should I worry, should I tell her not to go to be with them, but the frightening thing about all this is as soon as she mentioned this boys name and how he is there every week. I started getting excited and actually hard, it turned me on a lot as I thought of them chatting and laughing and for all I know they would be sitting together, the fact that she started improvement of her dress appearance, and very short skirts maybe he tell her what he likes on her... she always wears sexy lingerie that has not changed.

Since then I have started to worry and I am now looking online for advice or people with similar to experience I have not come across my problem but some words have made me read more on the subject such as cuckolding stories/ affairs stories just whatever I could see that's why I am here I picked this site as it may answer my questions and advise me
Thank you
Nial
 
Not sure where to start. But I am married 2 years to a beautiful girl we get on well and have a pretty good sex life not as intense as in the begining but satisfied.
My present worry stress is I have noticed my wife is extremely friendly with her co-workers and has the occasional drink after work with them usually about 6 of them.
So she never stays out long and only has 2 drinks as she is driving home, now it is twice a week, but lately she talks little things about one co-worker in particular, I have started to get worried as the after works drinks now involve her taking some different outer clothes to work to change before leaving the office.
She can come home wearing mini skirts and look beautiful with her long legs. Hair and make up perfect.
I am stressed that she might fancy this co-worker as some nights there are different workers but he never misses a night, I suggested going to meet her at the bar but she says no what would the others think
So should I worry, should I tell her not to go to be with them, but the frightening thing about all this is as soon as she mentioned this boys name and how he is there every week. I started getting excited and actually hard, it turned me on a lot as I thought of them chatting and laughing and for all I know they would be sitting together, the fact that she started improvement of her dress appearance, and very short skirts maybe he tell her what he likes on her... she always wears sexy lingerie that has not changed.

Since then I have started to worry and I am now looking online for advice or people with similar to experience I have not come across my problem but some words have made me read more on the subject such as cuckolding stories/ affairs stories just whatever I could see that's why I am here I picked this site as it may answer my questions and advise me
Thank you
Nial
Bro you just got to lay down the law. If she doesn't want you to go than maybe she shouldn't be going to. If it not a place where her husband can come I think maybe she shouldn't go either. But the best thing to do is talk with her and keep asking if you can go to. Because if she doesn't want you there I find that a issue and you should ask why you can go and if she can't give you an honest answer then you might have a problem.
 
Thank you for your advice, however for me it's not so easy, I am a submissive, and a sissy I think I want to be cuckold. I love my wife very much and want her happy. I worry about her in the sense that she is thinking of the right man in the right direction, I think he is an alpha man and while she is Dom with me in a kind way I think maybe she would be submissive to him and I just want to be sure she is happy.
He is in fact one year younger than her but from what I found out he is much more mature that her, Tall good looking gym type and is supposed to be a very nice boy.
I do not want to intrude as I do not want her to think I don't trust her, and I don't want to upset her or make her unhappy.
On top of all that I am very excited and turned on by the prospect of her been with a boyfriend.
I need to tell her but I can't I am the gentle more fem one in the relationship and there is no way I can approach the subject... If I had a good friend I could confide in I would get him to talk to her. But I am to embarrassed to even talk to one of them about it all.
I might get someone to email her to tell her how I want this for her pleasure, passion and happiness and how I need her to feminise me sissified me and cuckold me.
But in the meantime it is moving along...

Thanks
 
You're posting on a 'cuckold/hotwife' site asking for advice. You use the term worry.

If you want to be cuckolded you should be glad not worried and encourage her.
If you don't want to be cuckolded you should be worried and have a discussion with her and NOT solicit advice here.
 
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Sorry I thought this was a cuckold/hot-wife forum site where experienced people might advise the newbies like me to accept cuckolding. It's not nice to rejected in the manner you are writing.
Pity you
 
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Well, it is a hotwife /cuckold site. The advice you are most likely to receive it going to be “flavored” towards cuckolding.
How do you feel about cuckolding? Is this something about which you fantasize? Tell us a bit more about you and your thoughts.
The best “Internet advice” I can give you is to be more direct with your wife when you are communicating. It sounds like that isn’t happening nearly enough.
If she denies you access to the truth and you know differently, then she sounds like a cheater. That’s not cuckolding. If that’s the case, maybe you need to join an infidelity site instead. If she is starting to have an emotional affair with someone else and you are not onboard with that, maybe you also need an infidelity site.
 
By your explanation sounds as if the journey of her cuckolding you is happening without a true discussion on: who ( maybe you kinda of know) what, where and when this will all take place.

You need to find the courage to tell her exactly how you feel about the excitement/desire to have her cuckold you, so you both can agree on how you both want it to go down. Since you are having issues opening up to her on your true desires you need to find a way to bring up the subject so you can openly discuss.
Maybe if you watch a movie with the subject or motive a cuckold or hotwife theme that can get the ball moving. It doesn't have to be a hard core porn movie but one that has ability to get the conversation going.
For example, I am watching the HBO series Minx with my wife in the series they have a lot of full nude male scene's. When watching the series with my wife I could see she is really digging all the cock being flashed around and sometimes ask her questions like what do you think of that cock or would fuck him. I could see she is getting turned on by the vision of cock and my questions. One time she made a comment that the series would be better if the series' showed the nude males walking around aroused or with hard -ons. Many times our conversations went on to talk about how she likes cock and the subject of hotwifing.
 
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Not sure where to start. But I am married 2 years to a beautiful girl we get on well and have a pretty good sex life not as intense as in the begining but satisfied.
My present worry stress is I have noticed my wife is extremely friendly with her co-workers and has the occasional drink after work with them usually about 6 of them.
So she never stays out long and only has 2 drinks as she is driving home, now it is twice a week, but lately she talks little things about one co-worker in particular, I have started to get worried as the after works drinks now involve her taking some different outer clothes to work to change before leaving the office.
She can come home wearing mini skirts and look beautiful with her long legs. Hair and make up perfect.
I am stressed that she might fancy this co-worker as some nights there are different workers but he never misses a night, I suggested going to meet her at the bar but she says no what would the others think
So should I worry, should I tell her not to go to be with them, but the frightening thing about all this is as soon as she mentioned this boys name and how he is there every week. I started getting excited and actually hard, it turned me on a lot as I thought of them chatting and laughing and for all I know they would be sitting together, the fact that she started improvement of her dress appearance, and very short skirts maybe he tell her what he likes on her... she always wears sexy lingerie that has not changed.

Since then I have started to worry and I am now looking online for advice or people with similar to experience I have not come across my problem but some words have made me read more on the subject such as cuckolding stories/ affairs stories just whatever I could see that's why I am here I picked this site as it may answer my questions and advise me
Thank you
Nial
Listen. Cuckolding aside if you both haven’t spoken about you wanting a bull and then she is having affairs with someone else. That is called cheating not cuckolding. You as a man have to maintain the relationship before she doesn’t see you as a man anymore. You married her so if you tell her not to go and give a good reason then she should listen. Or if she says you can come then get probs cheating ngl sorry but it’s the truth ur her hubby ofc she would invite you if she wasn’t gonna cheat. Man up before the marriage falls.
 
Bro you just got to lay down the law. If she doesn't want you to go than maybe she shouldn't be going to. If it not a place where her husband can come I think maybe she shouldn't go either. But the best thing to do is talk with her and keep asking if you can go to. Because if she doesn't want you there I find that a issue and you should ask why you can go and if she can't give you an honest answer then you might have a problem.
Bro, it reads to me more like he's dealing with the idea of being cucked...and it appeals to him. Read how he got hard when thinking about it.
 
Bro, it reads to me more like he's dealing with the idea of being cucked...and it appeals to him. Read how he got hard when thinking about it.
Yeha but it can’t run on how his wife just went and is getting all excited for this boy without telling him her intentions. If he wants to be a cuck this is not the best way to do it. Cuz the wife will just picking men friends without asking. As a result of this, will cause cheating and then there won’t be no interest left in the relationship. Best way to be a cuck in my opinion is to go online and one maybe two bulls. Then both of you agree on it and set boundaries
 
…. Then both of you agree on it and set boundaries
Which comes back to some direct communication between both husband and wife. If that communication is absent, it is possible for things to spin out of control.

But overall, I agree. The marriage should be maintained as the #1 priority and ground rules adhered to at all costs. Else this may end up like another poster here whose wife blew off all the grounds rules they established, lost respect for her husband, and is now living hours from the family home to spend time “test driving” the other man. I truly believe ‘Karma’ will eventually catch up to this other poster’s wife and she will be disappointed later with what becomes of her life.
 
Which comes back to some direct communication between both husband and wife. If that communication is absent, it is possible for things to spin out of control.

But overall, I agree. The marriage should be maintained as the #1 priority and ground rules adhered to at all costs. Else this may end up like another poster here whose wife blew off all the grounds rules they established, lost respect for her husband, and is now living hours from the family home to spend time “test driving” the other man. I truly believe ‘Karma’ will eventually catch up to this other poster’s wife and she will be disappointed later with what becomes of her life.
Yeah I feel like the person who made this post needs to get a grip and tell her how he feels. At the end of the day it’s his wife.
 
Yeha but it can’t run on how his wife just went and is getting all excited for this boy without telling him her intentions. If he wants to be a cuck this is not the best way to do it. Cuz the wife will just picking men friends without asking. As a result of this, will cause cheating and then there won’t be no interest left in the relationship. Best way to be a cuck in my opinion is to go online and one maybe two bulls. Then both of you agree on it and set boundaries
Have you ANY idea what ur talking about??
Wife ALWAYS gets to pick the guys she wants. Cuckold has NO say in it....he's a cuckold!
 
Yeha but it can’t run on how his wife just went and is getting all excited for this boy without telling him her intentions. If he wants to be a cuck this is not the best way to do it. Cuz the wife will just picking men friends without asking. As a result of this, will cause cheating and then there won’t be no interest left in the relationship. Best way to be a cuck in my opinion is to go online and one maybe two bulls. Then both of you agree on it and set boundaries
One of the main tenets of this lifestyle to "preserve the primary relationship". And for the record if the wife is unfaithful the husband IS a cuckold.