I always end up discussing a possible pregnancy with my Lovers too!! I simply cannot get it out of my mind as it is something I REALLY want (to get pregnant by someone other than my husband). Sometimes we discuss it BEFORE we even become Lovers, which really helps us BECOME Lovers. I have even had HOT text conversations with a guy I wanted to have an affair with about my birth control choices and what would happen if I did get pregnant!! REALLY makes sex a lot hotter when a pregnancy is on the table!! J (the wife)