Recent content by buzzuk58

The husband intervened only when you changed position to doggie after several minutes of missionary. He could have intervened either before you entered or after but it took a good few minutes for him to stop it. Who knows what was going on in his mind. Did he not mind the missionary but didn't...

It's funny because if you believe in your religion, this lifestyle would definitely be considered to be on the path to hell. So if you want to go ahead with this lifestyle, your religion would need to take a back seat all the way to a point it can't be seen. Otherwise how can you justify it. I'm...

Yep, it has to start naturally. I'm not expecting too much at this moment. She knows everything about my fantasy and we're still enjoying the idea in bed. For it to happen in reality, it needs to happen naturally. Someone that she may meet and get attracted to. Baby Steps indeed.

It is, especially when she's not used to another man seeing her naked.

Not much. Although I did mention a sensual massage parlour, but didn't get the chance. She wasn't much in the mood for something like that.

We have yet to dip our toes into this lifestyle if it happens. My wife had similar concerns of how I might perceive her afterwards. I’m a fairly reasonable guy and would be very hypocritical of me to think of her any less especially how much I’ve wanted her to be with another guy. However even...

My wife isn't considered conservative but some of her thoughts may be bordered around conservatism. I'm trying to break that kind of thinking.

Thanks for you support. What is your current situation? Your wife knows about your fantasy?

Nice idea but it's too much for the first time. I'm sure she wouldn't go for that unless that buddy is a very close friend to both of us. We don't have that kind of bond with anyone at this time.

Thanks for the advice. Are you on the same boat as me by any chance? Have you guys yet to take the plunge into the lifestyle? The last time my wife and I was talking seriously, she thought about our friends who she believed probably wouldn't do something like this. It made me think about our...

I had in mind that I need to stop suggesting it and allow it to happen naturally but the circumstances need to come up.

I was thinking the same thing. Maybe I can get her to try a sensual massage whilst on holiday. We're going abroad next week and I'll see if I can organise something like that. I've also suggested to her that if she wants to flirt and feel she wants to move ahead with someone that she has my...

Appreciate the responses guys. Great insight already. Bobby75, I like the massage idea (which I had in mind at one point) if she would ever agree to it. Having another man rub her all over without intercourse could possibly get her thinking more for sure. We are going on holiday abroad soon...

Hey everyone, I haven't posted in a while as I hadn't gotten very far with persuading my wife to play. I've been checking this site continuously and I wanted to see if I can get some advice as I don't know where I am anymore. At one point I we had not discussed about the cuckold lifestyle (or...

Hi Kngdom9, As we've yet to break into this lifestyle, trying to figure out what's the best plan of action. We've discussed about age and which would be better for our first time. We believe someone whom is closer in age to us, whether they are a few years younger or older isn't the issue...