Hi Kngdom9,
As we've yet to break into this lifestyle, trying to figure out what's the best plan of action. We've discussed about age and which would be better for our first time. We believe someone whom is closer in age to us, whether they are a few years younger or older isn't the issue. Putting aside the the attraction for a moment, the main characteristic for us would be maturity, experience and respect. These are prerequisites that they must have otherwise age does not determine anything.
Until we pass that threshold, age would may then turn into a type of fetish in which I can't think of at this time.
Hope this gives you some perspective.