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Questions - First Time with Younger New Couple (True Story) Question if i may; this Alpha "friend" you mention is he someone you know really well or just an acquaintance? I ask because I see many guys confuse the two thereby ending up with all sorts of problems when they choose the latter...

Our first guy was more of a beta type guy, but salt of the Earth person who was a great all around guy and really perfect first for us. The wife loved him in a brotherly way. He and i were great friends too. She was really turned on by him as well, since he was so different from any of her 3...

I have an original one-sentence quip that I think encapsulates the lifestyle; "You can be anything to your partner but new, however in the lifestyle you can share new with them." Most affairs are about the excitement of the new rather than sex. We all become familiar to our partners if the...

Hopefully I won't come off as too preachy and rambling, but here goes. Our rules were very explicit with both of us actively working to make certain the other was secure in the relationship. I may get flamed on here for some of this. 😄 I didn't ask you some background questions and wants which...

Based on this post from you my appraisal of the situation is significantly different from my previous post. It sounds like you have a better relationship than I had previously concluded. Obviously there is something going on though because there is a mismatch in sexual desire and frequency...

I am sorry to hear about your circumstances because it sounds as if you have communicated your desires to her in a thoughtful deferential way. Based on how well you write, you have conveyed a deep understanding of the issues, I'm comfortable saying your wife is the one who is being obstinate. It...

Instead of guessing, the best way to find out how to make it work for her is to ask her. "If I had a guy over how do you imagine a threesome would happen?" Let her talk with occasional observational questions like "Would you like me to start by undressing you and kissing you?", Build a...

We ended that possibility by having her tell the guys upfront that any such statements or offers, even "jokingly", would result in them being banished as a partner. She felt uncomfortable the one time a guy, who was just a candidate, did it during a dance at a social. Disrespecting a couple's...

I agree with your points, so I don't think we are in disagreement. Truthfully, some, if not many, relationships are not meant for the lifestyle. There are valid personal reasons that a partner wouldn't want to be involved in a sharing relationship; from religious, to safety to insecurities and a...

My strong advice to the partner initiating the conversation of getting into the lifestyle (overwhelmingly the guys) is to make sure your significant other is happy with your relationship. Ask if there is anything that they would like to see improved. I have learned that this part of the...

Well I would agree that "men are the ones who want and initiate this" in the vast majority of cases, but I had a partner that was ecstatic that I wanted to share her because she was naturally non-monogamous. She always had a personal conflict of having to "conform" to monogamy because the...

Well I personally would not start a sharing relationship based on infidelity. I think trust is the foundation for everything else. None of the women I have shared didn't believe my reasoning when I told them about my desire to share them. They knew I was an honest guy. It also was very obvious...

Well I hate to say this, but it sounds like there is a bigger problem if you are telling her you don't want other women yet she doesn't believe you. You have to get that fixed before I would share anyway. In my experience "Trust" is an absolute must for a successful sharing relationship.

The Foundations of a Strong Mutual Sharing Relationship I wanted to create a list of what I believe are the fundamentals of creating a lasting reciprocal sharing relationship and of setting up group encounters that are enjoyable for all involved. 1st - Be honest with yourself. This is number...

I am a 62 year old man who has been involved in the sharing lifestyle for 37 years, with over 200 encounters with no bad experiences. Over the years many close lifelong friendships were established along the way; both platonic and intimate. Experienced on both sides of the equation as part of a...

Psychologists say our sexual arousal predilections are imprinted during adolescence or younger. My desire for multiple partner sex started when I was a very young boy who was curious about the anatomy of girls (we were all roughly the same age). Being concerned about getting into trouble for...

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I have over 30 years experience sharing partners as a couple and as a solo male joining other couples. I would be glad to help, just PM me. Information I need if possible: What are her reasons for refusing (i.e. you want another woman, I don't look good enough, religious, etc.) What type of...

This was in 1985 when I was in college. I had two roommates in a small rented house. My brother's ""S & D" were also there often hanging out. My brothers and I are like best buddies, hanging together even today. I think it might have something to do with being military brats. One of my roommates...