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Motoman is right. See if you can get a detailed phone bill with records of texting. Just tell them you're considering changing your data plan, or don't tell them anything.

Find out why they hate each other. If your husband truly doesn't like this guy he may have a real reason why. Is your husband the type that does anything without good reason? That may clue you in and give you an idea of what you may face if he finds out from this guy or someone else. He's...

She has to know that you're at a minimum suspicious of her behavior. I understand that she has been intolerable on so many levels. Have you considered what you'll do when you (hopefully) get some concrete evidence? I know you'll want to throw it in her face. She's earned at least that much. What...

I don't blame you in the least about wanting to catch her. She's more or less thrown down the gauntlet and dared you to catch her. Maybe a second recorder for the bedroom might be a good thing too. She might make a phone call there while you're out of the bedroom. I fully understand how this...

She's going to get careless eventually. The question will be whether she actually does care about deceiving you. She's getting more bold and it sounds like she won't care if you do know what she's doing. By then it will be too late. Catching her in her deception won't matter by that time. Maybe...

This is hot, I agree. I love the setup! It plays on the exhibitionist fetish along with the search for potential partners. The ONLY part that concerns me is the workplace setting. Your wife mentioned that it "might make things at work awkward" and his reply discounted that. He could have...

Damn censoring! I was asking about her (I'll misspell it on purpose) "daw ter"

Is her ...... from the ex husband? Do you have any interaction with her? Do you know anything about what the ......'s attitude is towards her father?

Did she catch her ex cheating? She seems preoccupied with him. I don't know if it's love or hate. I know you said he left her for a younger woman. Pardon me if this is a wrong assumption, do you feel like she's taking it out on you for her husband leaving her? I understand of course that his...

Man, my heart goes out top you brother! One of the worst feelings you can have is to not be motivated to have sex with your wife, especially when you crave an exciting sex life with all your heart. It's crushing to have your desire taken away from you by your spouse. I struggle with resentment...

It sounds like she's playing a game that will ultimately end badly. She'll become more and more cavalier and it will progress to being foolhardy. Eventually she will become so confident that she won't feel the need to be cautious and indifferent to trying to hide it from you. She simply won't...

Thank you for the kind word on my post. I've always wanted an exciting sex life. I've learned over the years of being on this site and another more about what I DON'T want than what I do. I ran into the "Three Horsemen of the Sexual Apocalypse" during the course of our marriage, a conservative...

I read the responses here and I can't tell what to think. On one hand there's the ubiquitous group of husbands/bfs that absolutely crave the humiliation whether the wife/gf is into or not. They can't get enough of it. I'm sure it must be difficult for a wife/gf to understand it, especially if...

I guess that's somewhat good news. Still, there's some tough times ahead.

You need to talk to her now and get it off your chest, and I do mean your chest because this sounds like an anvil on your heart.

What was your personal revelation? I understand if it's too personal to share.

I don't doubt the hurt you're feeling! I'll bet you're ready to just blow up! When you say "the end for us" do you mean for the lifestyle or do you mean for the two of you?

Regarding your "new arrangement" phase. It's great that your are excited about it. I'm sure that helps your wife. So, what is the plan? Is the "bull" from your hotwife friend a transitionary player in your scheme? If he is, have you talked about how long you'll need him? Is there a goal to...

Regarding your "awkward situation" post, I'm curious to know how much discussion you had with her about your rules and limits? Did she give you her opinions about those? I have a sneaking suspicion that she was curious about what you got out of the situation and if you had any issues with...