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I respectfully suggest that you address why you are not having sex. Is she good with this? If so, you are looking at a real possibility that she is asexual. This is not to say that she cannot 'have' sex; but it means that even if arousal and climax IS possible for her, it's likely that she...

I'd suggest some general reading. I tend to agree with the suggestion that she's 'feeling the water' before proceeding. In the event that she wants to question you more thoroughly, it wouldn't hurt if you could show that you've actually thought through some issues. Possible sources? You must...

This is very nice. Were I your hubby's buddy, I would pass off this photo to him saying that it was MY wife after being with another man. I'd explain that while I found it unsettling, what truly surprised me was that I responded so powerfully to seeing it and knowing what it meant. I'd ask him...

As I see it, that is what sex is SUPPOSED to be.

Agreed. But then, I'm by no means 100% certain that this is on the up and up ... for reasons I outline on my first post on this thread.

I read such posts through dual lens: 1} the credibility of the explanations and 2] the preponderance of happenstance. A I do so, I ask myself, ‘how much happenstance is allowable before the credibility of explanation becomes a] strained, b] torturous or c] outright collapses. You’re twelve...

Another thought, Snoopsissy. Have you thought about buying your wife a half or quarter bra? Then don’t forget nipple bands? The effect of both together can be quite remarkable.

I like what you've done with this. Photos must be censured to protect the guilty; but so often this is done poorly! We've all seen these posted photos of someone with a stunningly beautiful body marred by the deletion of a head and leaving a white or black square in its place. I've wished that...

The lesson here: prepare beforehand. Since she sometimes slips some history, think through a few general responses and be ready when it happens. After all -- she can’t do much with no reaction. If she WAS testing you, you show her no way forward. You might have replied, ‘did this come second...

I downloaded a programme [Australian spelling] 'OCR Scanner.' That is 'optical character recognition.' It works fairly well with only a few glitches [occasional misspellings, a break 'with in' a word, or a symbol]. But it's free and does the job. I checked again and wasn't able to locate it...

Probably so…

farzad: You’re getting good counsel here. Even ‘convincing’ is an unworthy strategy. Rather than pushing or convincing, tempt, draw, encourage and seduce her to do this. Let this arise from within her. Let it he HER desire, HER need which lures her into this. Apparently, your wife has a...

The ‘moment’ may have passed, but you can pick another good moment… I’ve been thinking about what you asked about my cuckold desire. Actually, I’ve been thinking about it plenty. I can’t help. It MAKES me feel so hot! And I feel that this is what is supposed to be. I know I was pretty...

My guess is that you must answer such questions yourself. You did one already — by all means, you can give HIM her phone #. Mind, she’ll know immediately you did it. Alternatively, keep a few copies of a slip in your wallet when you go out together. Ex: ‘Thanks for noticing my wife! I’d love...

I encourage you to work with Tonetantillo, to be a sounding board, to help interpret his wife’s actions and reactions, and to aid with the strategizing of his wife’s glorious debauching.

This thread reminds me of something I saw years ago. Whenever she raises or discusses the cuckold fetish, you pull out the stops and she gets more out of it. On times when she doesn't discuss this, you are ho-hum about it, finish too soon, or get too sleepy to perform well. Without his needing...

Powerful banner photo! Like a bunny terrified by an asp, she is transfixed. Her heart pounds wildly in her chest which heaves, falls and heaves again. Her breath catches as it nears. She knows she should run. But its one eye mystifies her. It holds her. As if hypnotized, she cannot look away...

We all know that sex and work don't mix – except [of course] when they do. And not infrequently, it's at an office party when they do. Christmas and/or New Year’s Eve, co-workers and bosses are there and on the prowl. Ditto for employee spouses. There’s that guy from work who is a bit stayed but...

Thank you for this. I suggest a sympathetic approach with your wife. Remind her of their prior issues. Point out that this would have happened inevitably. Point out that where anger issues exist, professional help is truly necessary, and it is no sure thing that said intervention will help. Say...

The hottest move I've ever seen -- in the 80s, a youngish woman developed her own dance move. While on the floor, she would squat [thereby sticking out her rump, which she wiggled profusely in time with the music], and grab a man's pants over the front pockets, adjacent to his junk. She pulled...