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Sometimes it sucks, and not in a good way! I'm not going to let it ruin my buzz though!

Just checking in on you. Any new revelations?

I'm beginning to believe that she never was or has been cheating on you. I think she's addicted to tormenting you and she can't stop herself. She has projected her anger towards he ex onto you. She probably hold a spot in her heart that hates all men and she feels the need to point out the...

Has your husband begged you yet?

My wife and I are doing fine, thanks for asking. We are finally in a place where we have more and better sex than ever before. I wish we had gotten to this place much earlier in life but it is what it is. The important part is she's far more interested in sex now. She's showing pride in her...

You sound like you have experience and knowledge earned over the years. The part of your reply that I highlighted seems to be a lost consideration and reason many of these relationships ultimately fail. You can't be oblivious to the experience of ALL those participating (in whatever form that...

Any updates on the ongoing situation? Have you moved out of the bedroom? How has your wife responded to your attitude and what has her attitude been like?

Great for fantasy but the real truth will always be that no one owns anybody. "Sexual ownership" is not a concept that is grounded in reality. I think people lose sight of the idea that the excitement of sex is fleeting and doesn't dominate the balance of time spent in a relationship. All of us...

Get yourself moved out of the bedroom! Make your stand!

You've done your due diligence! She's had every opportunity to turn things around. This is ALL on her now!

Since her main pleasure seems to be tormenting you the best thing you can do is deny her the opportunity. Work on a project in the garage. Go to the pub. ...... in a spare bedroom or the couch or the garage, whatever but don't bother with ...... with her. Let her know you don't want some pity...

I'm glad you confronted her. She's on the road to ruin, all of her own making. I agree with Samsar, your marriage is in shambles. I feel terrible for you! You deserve SO much better. She is not going to change until she does some serious self examination. It's clear she will stand on the fact...

Do you think that's going to happen? Has he shown any signs of changing his attitude? How curious are you about why your husband dislikes this guy so much? Have you asked this guy what he thinks is the reason your husband dislikes him? If you go ahead and have sex with this guy your husband...

Resentment was and still is a HUGE hurdle for me. In the past I remember telling myself that I would not initiate anything. I would wait until she noticed or realized that we had gone without sex for as long as we had. I was building resentment with each and every day that passed without ANY...

Matching her indifference and cold attitude will only be frustrating for you. She thrives on her attitude. Your trying to match her attitude won't affect her. She'll just double down on it. It's a playing field that she has lots of experience with. She knows she has you boxed in to that corner...

It all seems fine until "feelings" enter the situation. Surprisingly, this is far from limited to the hot wife/gf. That's just the one that gets lots of coverage. No one talks much about the "feelings" a husband/bf gets when his wife/gf admits to having an emotional connection to their...

Yeah it certainly doesn't sound or feel like there's any love there. The step "daw ter" is a pain in the ass. It feels like the ONLY joy in the house is derived from her taunting Snoopsissy. I wonder if she is truly "prudish" or if it is because she so turned off by what Snoop has said he's...

Is it because you can't help yourself? I remember you saying he didn't like the idea but he reluctantly agreed with letting you choose what to do. You said he specifically didn't want to hear about it. Is defying his wishes as much fun as the actual sex?

Your situation makes my mind fly off into all kinds of questions and imagined possibilities. I can only imagine that you are experiencing that full on! It made me wonder if your wife is driving you to cheat on her and catch you at it to hold over your head. As if it was something like, "I know...

In a rare case I began a private message correspondence with a wife that consented to her husband taking on lovers. She began to feel the hypocrisy of years of her having unrestricted fun. She fully admitted that if the situation were reversed she couldn't accept it. She admitted that she was...