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You've done your due diligence! She's had every opportunity to turn things around. This is ALL on her now!

Since her main pleasure seems to be tormenting you the best thing you can do is deny her the opportunity. Work on a project in the garage. Go to the pub. ...... in a spare bedroom or the couch or the garage, whatever but don't bother with ...... with her. Let her know you don't want some pity...

I'm glad you confronted her. She's on the road to ruin, all of her own making. I agree with Samsar, your marriage is in shambles. I feel terrible for you! You deserve SO much better. She is not going to change until she does some serious self examination. It's clear she will stand on the fact...

Do you think that's going to happen? Has he shown any signs of changing his attitude? How curious are you about why your husband dislikes this guy so much? Have you asked this guy what he thinks is the reason your husband dislikes him? If you go ahead and have sex with this guy your husband...

Resentment was and still is a HUGE hurdle for me. In the past I remember telling myself that I would not initiate anything. I would wait until she noticed or realized that we had gone without sex for as long as we had. I was building resentment with each and every day that passed without ANY...

Matching her indifference and cold attitude will only be frustrating for you. She thrives on her attitude. Your trying to match her attitude won't affect her. She'll just double down on it. It's a playing field that she has lots of experience with. She knows she has you boxed in to that corner...

It all seems fine until "feelings" enter the situation. Surprisingly, this is far from limited to the hot wife/gf. That's just the one that gets lots of coverage. No one talks much about the "feelings" a husband/bf gets when his wife/gf admits to having an emotional connection to their...

Yeah it certainly doesn't sound or feel like there's any love there. The step "daw ter" is a pain in the ass. It feels like the ONLY joy in the house is derived from her taunting Snoopsissy. I wonder if she is truly "prudish" or if it is because she so turned off by what Snoop has said he's...

Is it because you can't help yourself? I remember you saying he didn't like the idea but he reluctantly agreed with letting you choose what to do. You said he specifically didn't want to hear about it. Is defying his wishes as much fun as the actual sex?

Your situation makes my mind fly off into all kinds of questions and imagined possibilities. I can only imagine that you are experiencing that full on! It made me wonder if your wife is driving you to cheat on her and catch you at it to hold over your head. As if it was something like, "I know...

In a rare case I began a private message correspondence with a wife that consented to her husband taking on lovers. She began to feel the hypocrisy of years of her having unrestricted fun. She fully admitted that if the situation were reversed she couldn't accept it. She admitted that she was...

I'll stand by the notion that if BOTH parties don't get something they want out of the arrangement then failure is inevitable! Denial may be fun at the onset but when denial is an accepted routine then where is the thrill? After a husband/bf accepts that NOTHING is going to happen for him the...

Once you have the tracker in place it may come down to you having to actually physically follow her. Do you have any friends at the pub that you can talk to about this? That's if you go to the pub on any regular sort of basis. You could use some more immediate input from a friend or friends. As...

It strikes me as odd how your thread has me fired up. Maybe I've read too many BTB (burn the bitch) stories on Literotica. You could easily make a great story there if you transcribed this thread into a "diary-like" story with a timeline.Something like, "Day one: I noticed something odd today...

Stay with it and stay vigilant! She's going to slip up. She'll get over confident. Her attitude will eventually be her undoing.

Was/is denial part of what you both had planned? I'll say for myself that I've NEVER had as much sex as I want to have. I've NEVER understood denial as being a thrill. I know that some do and that's fine for them. I don't have a hot wife and even though my wife knows the idea to me is...

It may be time to take a motorcycle trip for a few days. Let the voice recorders do their thing while you're gone. Maybe she'll let her guard down while you're away. Another thought that came to mind is a GPS tracker. They are cheaper ($15-$30 on Amazon) than voice recorders and relatively...

Any possibility of her hooking up with this guy?

Is your wife off for summer break yet? I know you said she drives a school bus. The school year should be over now. I'm just wondering if she's home all day now. Any other updates? Anything come up from your recorders?

Whenever I read about guys that rave about being "pussy free" or being denied, or being given "alternatives" for sex, I always imagine somebody saying, "Nothing is as good as the NOTHING I get from my wife!" I've NEVER felt like I have had as much sex as I've wanted. I love to fuck! No one...