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As I talk to people who are in a similar boat to me - they have opened my mind a bit. I grew up in Alabama - and was raised a southen baptist. It's been an adjustment for me - stepping away from my religous roots. But I appreciate speaking with you and others that help me to see that this is...

A few months ago - I posted about my fiancee having an affair with a much older, married man. They were using my apartment and I was letting her do it thinking our soon to be wedding was canceled. However, I have learned that her physical needs have nothing to do with how she feels about me...

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Where you in Japan. That is where I had my experience too. She went to Chiba university - studying to be a teacher. Ms innocent and composed in public.. really into sex behind closed doors

Same here for me. I am in the Navy in Japan. My GF is a freshman at Chiba university. I live about 2 hours away - so she feels comfortable "letting herself go" here. I am 21 she is 19. But she met a 50 yo man at a party I had... big mistake. She is now seeing him and they meet at my...

I sit in the living room while they use the back room. My apartment is very small - 800 sq ft or so. The walls are thin - I can hear everything. I can see why she likes him - he is much more experienced than I am.. she also told me I "came too soon" all the time. That I need to learn...

Yeah I agree. But if I get to be around her - and hopefully get our relationship back on track - I am willing to do it. They will be here in about 8 hours (its 3 am in Japan now). I'll see how this first visit goes.

Well - this afternoon - Akiko knocked on my door. You can imagine my surprise - she was alone and said "we need to talk". I was waiting for this moment - the apology. Her telling me that she made a big mistake and she wanted to get back together. So I listened. She started with "well, he...

Not fiction - I hope in the future I can think of it that way - but right now its a dagger in my back.

I didn't view her that way - she was my first true love. I was fully committed to our relationship then all this happened. It was a lesson in life. Her new man talks about her that way - I wish she could hear him.

Thank you sir. When I said earlier - I think I grew up a bit.. I understand how someone could "get off" on this kind of story. It doesn't bother me. Its like therapy really to get it out. I have a lot of anger toward her now.. I'll get over it I know. I try to make the best of it and when I...

I think I have "grown up" a bit in the last month. I just see her going into his apartment and know how good she feels.. knowing its him and not me. This weekend we have a work party where we've rented out a bar/dance floor and people are staying over at the hotel. This will be a big test...

Very true - and I appreciate you guys pointing this out. It's fresh - it happened just last month. I also understand that he takes to her "adult type" parties where she may be with other men/couples. I can tell you honestly - she was not like that when we met. She is studying to be a...

You are probably right - but I blame myself for bringing her to that party. It changed everything.

I am a 22 year old American sailor stationed in Japan. I grew up in Alabama and was a little shocked when I received my orders to Japan. It didn't take long for me to fall in love with the beauty of this country. The girls here are doll like - they have a sophisticated innocence about them...