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  1. Ben Steel

    The Psychology of Cuckoldry

    Check out our latest article in the psychology of cuckoldry. Do you agree with the premise? Why or why not? https://www.thecuckoldscave.com/blog/the-psychology-of-cuckoldry
  2. Ben Steel

    2017 Annual Cuckold Survey

    The Cuckold's Cave is holding an annual survey for the cuckold community. It's a short, 10 question survey designed to understand the needs and desires of the cuckold community so that we can better serve you. The survey is completely anonymous and we will not be sharing the data with anyone...
  3. Ben Steel

    How Do I Tell my Wife I Want Her to Fuck Other Men

    On the flip side of that coin, if this fantasy is central to your sexuality (and it is for many men), then you can't just ignore it. You can either resign yourself to masturbation or have a frank talk about what this means for both of you. I agree that no one should throw away a marriage, but...
  4. Ben Steel

    training a hotwife

    So you're just looking for a fun, creative way to set her up with someone? I'm not sure I entirely understand what you're asking.
  5. Ben Steel

    Frustration

    I hear you. Been in that space for a while because it's really hard to find a QUALITY guy. My wife has no interest in fucking just anybody and we usually talk about the guy together before we decide. Finding a guy who doesn't send a dick pic in his first communication or one who doesn't...
  6. Ben Steel

    Any tips ?

    I think you should forget about the "wife" part for now. Sounds like you simply need a girl who enjoys having casual sex. You're probably best trying to look at AFF or some site where you know that people already have that predisposition.
  7. Ben Steel

    Husbands fantasy

    My wife has a difficult time with this one, as well. I think it's mostly because she can't relate to how I feel about it. Many cuckolds enjoy the idea of their wife being with someone while they just watch. Some even like to hear about it later. I get turned on by my wife calling me on the...
  8. Ben Steel

    Husbands fantasy

    Current estimates are that cuckoldry turns is a fantasy for around 10% of the male population, which is A LOT. Cuckold porn is also the second most searched for category of porn in the world. All in all, this is becoming a much more common fantasy than many people realize. How each wife...
  9. Ben Steel

    How Do I Tell my Wife I Want Her to Fuck Other Men

    Honesty will always be your best bet, but I agree with many others that you need to take it slowly. I've had this kink my whole life, but I didn't tell my wife about it until about 2 years after we were married. I suggest doing a lot of detective work first. If you tell that you thought some...
  10. Ben Steel

    training a hotwife

    Is she open to the idea or do you need to convince her first?