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  1. J

    First Time Was Not Good

    I didn't realize people were craving updates here. It has been a few months and there have been some ups and downs to this hotwife thing. She had sex with my friend 3 more times none of which I was there to see. I was tempted to sit and watch but wanted to pass on it for now. We did meet 2...
  2. J

    First Time Was Not Good

    I appreciate your response and I hope things do progress and get better. Hopefully I am able to move past some of my own issues with this and am able to enjoy it as much as you and your wife.
  3. J

    First Time Was Not Good

    I know that having a sexually submissive wife is not uncommon and I was not surprised that she was sexually submissive and actually knew she was somewhat submissive. What I did not know was the extent to which she was willing to go with it. I was also taken back by my friend's actions. In the...
  4. J

    First Time Was Not Good

    We've done it twice more. One time without me there which went off just fine and another time with me watching which was to much for me after 10 minutes. I still want to see her fuck another guy but I have no interest in seeing her get hit, puking, pissed on, etc. by my friend anymore so we...
  5. J

    First Time Was Not Good

    Thanks! I've spoken to my wife about this more and she said she is embarrassed to discuss in detail but gives some detail into what happened. I'm trying to let her figure out how she feels comfortable going about this and letting her work her way into getting more comfortable about discussing...
  6. J

    First Time Was Not Good

    Update here. After several discussions with my wife we decided that her and my friend can have sex again but this time without me present. We told my friend about this and he was happy with this. So last weekend we went to his house, talked about it for a bit, and I left her there to do their...
  7. J

    First Time Was Not Good

    Thanks for everyone's advice. My wife and I had a very productive conversation about what happened. At the end of it we realized that first time nerves, exposure to an unfamiliar situation, and lack of communication contributed to all of this. We do want to move things forward and take this as a...
  8. J

    First Time Was Not Good

    I do appreciate all the feedback. Right now I'm just very confused and trying to figure things out. I've cooled off a little bit since it all first happened and I don't want to do anything that is going to ruin my friendship and marriage but I'm still not sure how to proceed. Losing my friend...
  9. J

    First Time Was Not Good

    I finally spoke with my wife to try to understand all of this. I asked her why she let this continue and didn't stop it when she had the chances to. She told me she originally had a lot of mixed emotions and that she was too nervous and overwhelmed to stop it. She said although she was taken...
  10. J

    First Time Was Not Good

    Wife and I were never swingers, never cheated on each other, never did anything crazy and we each only had sex with 1 other person before we met each other. Years of being married we wanted to open our sex life up a bit. Started with different positions, then different places, anal, and so on...