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    Surprising Discussion at The Cheesecake Factory.

    Yes, the guy was a creep, and I don't think anyone would argue that. But that doesn't make going to a casino alone the best or safest way to test the waters. I'd be amazed if anyone with experience would even put it in the top 5 if they were making suggestions.
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    Surprising Discussion at The Cheesecake Factory.

    There's also the distinct possibility that staff and other customers see a woman, on her own, in a casino, wearing revealing clothes, and make certain assumptions about her *ahem* profession. There are definitely better and safer ways for her to meet people. Oh, and if you find yourself about...
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    As a male, how is it to feel someone cum in you?

    It feels absolutely incredible, both physically and psychologically. It's one of the most intense things I've ever experienced, but I haven't done it for 15+ years.
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    Getting Back Into Lifestyle

    My wife just had her first date after over 18 months of not playing with anyone outside of our marriage. Nothing happened, but it probably will next time, and we're also planning to get together with a guy we met a couple of years ago, and maybe another guy I've been chatting to - if everything...
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    New To Site

    Thank you :)
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    "Blacked"? Seriously?

    As I said, it isn't the preference I find distasteful, it's the language used. I've heard on more than one occasion (not on this site, but via larger communities) of couples who openly use the N-word during play. I understand that everyone has their kinks, xxxcouplexxx, but (and I promise I'm...
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    Haha I'm a big boy, so I'll be fine ;)

    Haha I'm a big boy, so I'll be fine ;)
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    Wondering

    P.s. Great discussion :)
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    Wondering

    That part I can totally agree with. However, people not "labeling themselves" as bisexual is one of the main reasons for the stigma, and for increased levels of mental health problems in bi people, even when compared to the wider LGBTQ community. And it goes both ways - if even 10% of...
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    Wondering

    100% correct - 1 has a stigma attached to it, whilst the other is fetishized (which isn't necessarily any better for those on the receiving end, especially if a girl is coming out to a new partner and his only response is "that's hot"). When I said about being gay being "all or nothing", I...
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    New To Site

    Hi everyone We're a 33m/28f couple (male half posting) from Los Angeles, who have been exploring and enjoying non-monogamy both together and separately since October 2015, with our dynamic being swinger/open/hierarchical-poly, rather than cuckold, if anyone's wondering. It's fantastic to find...
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    Wondering

    Short answer: yes, being gay is all or nothing. Some people choose to define themselves as gay/straight even if they don't meet the standard definition of only being attracted to one sex (i.e. "I find women attractive, but I'd only have a sexual or romantic relationship with a man, so I'm gay")...
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    What's your Cuckold Score?

    55, and 5 of those were just because I enjoy sucking dick
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    "Blacked"? Seriously?

    Finding a characteristic attractive it's fair enough, but it's the way some people talk that's the problem.
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    Snapchat

    Do any couples share their hotwife adventures via Snapchat, or follow any couples who do?
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    "Blacked"? Seriously?

    Am I the only person who finds this fetishisation more than slightly distasteful? I know there are some men who don't have a problem with it, but I've also spoken to others who just accept it as part of the territory and choose to not complain. I find it hard to believe that there's more than a...
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    I don't like the guy my wife fucked last night

    The fact you sat at table watching while she chatted him up perhaps wrongly gave him the impression that you're into the humiliation aspect of things, and unless he's a mind-reader, he was never given the opportunity to adjust his behavior. Talk to him directly (NOT via wife), explain that...
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    condom or no condom

    That's really awesome. I know what you mean, though - the guy my wife went bare with was only 2nd time, and the guy I think/hope it will happen with soon, we've only met once so far.
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    condom or no condom

    That's awesome :) I think I'd be happy with one haha. How long were you seeing them before you made that decision? And do you mind me asking if those relationships are all purely sexual, or if you "date" any of them? And Allen - my wife and I don't have a cuckold dynamic, but I'd much rather...