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    It was hubby's idea to be cucked but my idea to cage him

    If it's just playing with me in the cage, actually you can't feel much through the metal.... but playing with your exposed balls is another thing. I get an erection in the cage more from mental stimulation... then it gets a little crowded in the cage, but feels good.
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    It was hubby's idea to be cucked but my idea to cage him

    My hubby and I share this post and take turns answering....... but sometimes I take the pics !
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    Cage question and ideas

    Not an expert on cock cages, but here is what I found for myself; I like the looks of a metal cage, so that's what I've bought so far I like the weight of the metal cage and how easy it is to clean and it is airy. The ring size is super important... too big and it will slip off... too small and...
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    Cock cage?

    I think I like my cock being caged more than my wife... but she's slowly getting used to seeing me in it. I told her about how thrilling it is when she first locks me up, but she thinks it's a bit cruel to me, but I like the power exchange of having her in control of the keys.
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    Caged cucks?

    wow, where did you get that cage? I'm debating on getting one like that since I like the weight of my metal cage now, but kinda dislike the brass hanging padlock.
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    Caged cucks?

    I've always wondered also, "is chastity just an extension and the next progression of being a cuckold?" I guess there are caged guys that arent into the cuckold/hotwife thing. (I know there are cuckolds that arent interested in male chastity) I've been interested in hotwifing for a long time...
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    Best cage

    This is my 2nd cage I've bought. First one was similar to this, but a bit longer, and I didn't "bottom out" when I was soft, but when I grew into it, it hurt a little. Someone suggested I get a smaller cage, which I did, and fit snuggly in it even when soft, so there's no growing pains. I...
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    Just the idea of being cucked has led me here

    You need to bring this out in the open with your gf to let her know how being a cuckold is such a turn on for you. (maybe dont use the term cuckhold just yet) If she's like my wife she wont totally understand. We skirted around the issue for over a year before coming out on what we each...
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    It was hubby's idea to be cucked but my idea to cage him

    Sorry it took so long to reply, Yes, that book on chastity is "Unlocking Desire" and it's a fun read and got me over the acceptance hump of figuring out what chastity is and what it means to my hubby. We bought one of those stainless cages off Amazon and it's working perfectly good. Actually...
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    Post your cage picks guys

    Love that cage.... easy to ******** out of!
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    How do I find a swinger's party or a club to bring my vanilla wife to?

    We've been to a nudist resort in Florida and I had a great time, and she eventually warmed up to it. There was no sex going on in any of the common areas, but I guess I didnt know enough to know what was going on in other areas. I know there are other nudist resorts that are more Lifestyle...
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    How do I find a swinger's party or a club to bring my vanilla wife to?

    First, my wife is not totally vanilla, but also not totally on board with becoming a real hot wife yet, EXCEPT she (we) love to role-play her fucking a new lover, or 2, while I mostly watch. She says she isnt ready to actually fuck a stranger, but may go to a "party" if she is allowed to just...
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    Next steps for wife

    I NEED THIS BOOK, can you tell me who the author is? I didnt see it on amazon but might have not looked in the right place.
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    It was hubby's idea to be cucked but my idea to cage him

    This has been quite a journey. My hubby brought up the idea of hotwifing probably 4 years ago, but must have been thinking about it for a while lot longer than that. I was pure vanilla when this all started and now we have found I'm not so vanilla. I was pretty reluctant until I read this book...
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    No longer his reluctant hotwife

    Hi Newbie, I just PM'ed you with a pic I hope you enjoy. I stumbled upon this thread a few weeks ago and was interested in the book that everyone here is talking about, so I went ahead and got a copy of Amazon. Glad I did. My wife usually, well never, likes any of these info or self-help books...
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    Hot role play, asking for input and ideas.

    I agree, we have the same book, The HW challenges in the book is leading her along at her own pace. Some simple as dressing sexier, getting to wear an anklet, and others pretty advanced such as trips to buy sex toys and a lot of roleplaying. Some of the things she would never even think to do...
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    my vanilla wife is now cuckolding me, and I'm loving it

    I told my very vanilla wife about my hotwife fantasies about 3 years ago, and that didnt go over so good. Religion or upbringing, I dont know but the idea of her being unfaithful to me was a deal breaker in our relationship. A few months ago I was lurking here and someone suggested this book...
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    Need advice on moving forward.

    I found this on another post, and tried it and it worked crazy good on my very vanilla wife. there is a book available called The Faithful Hotwife which was written by a woman to show other women how to roleplay being a hotwife and how to cuckold their husbands all while staying safely in the...
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    Happily married

    I think I stumbled onto something that is working with my wife who is/was about as vanilla as they come. She's known about my wish for her to be a hotwife for about 3 years now, but that hasnt gone over so well, as she mostly just ignored my "ideas". I've tried getting her to read articles and...
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    Hot role play, asking for input and ideas.

    I followed the advice from another posting and got my wife the book called - The Faithful Hotwife - off the Amazon site. My wife was/is pretty much vanilla, and wanted no part of this lifestyle because she thought doing if for real was a No Go for her, and she had no ideas of how to do the...