Hey everyone,
We’ve been lurking here for a while, but it’s time to actually introduce ourselves. We’re that "rare breed" together since high school (20 years now) and deep in this lifestyle for the last 12.
If you think our journey has been all high-end hotels and perfect threesomes, you’re dead wrong. We’ve had it all: the "alpha" bulls who went limp the second things got real, the awkward silences that felt like a funeral, and the nights we ended up fighting in the car because someone’s ego got bruised. We’ve basically been the poster children for "how NOT to do this."
But, somehow, we survived. We actually figured out how to make this sht work.
She finally decided it was time to stop keeping our stories private and started a YouTube channel. There’s no "relationship guru" crap there. She’s stripping it all down -talking about the sweat, the adrenaline, and the massive fuck-ups we made along the way. She’s sharing how we moved past the jealousy, how we filter out the time-wasters, and why the sex between just the two of us after a guest leaves is the most intense, visceral part of the whole deal.
We’re putting it all out there because we’re tired of seeing couples crash and burn over the same stupid mistakes we made ten years ago. We’ve even started putting together the actual scripts and "cheat codes" we use now to keep things smooth, safe, and hot as hell.
We’re curious - who else here is a "long-hauler"? How do you keep the spark from turning into a dumpster fire after two decades of marriage? What’s the cringiest "lifestyle" moment you’ve ever had?
Go check out her videos. It’s raw, it’s honest, and it might just save you a few years of therapy: https://www.youtube.com/@la-cortigiana/shorts
We’ve been lurking here for a while, but it’s time to actually introduce ourselves. We’re that "rare breed" together since high school (20 years now) and deep in this lifestyle for the last 12.
If you think our journey has been all high-end hotels and perfect threesomes, you’re dead wrong. We’ve had it all: the "alpha" bulls who went limp the second things got real, the awkward silences that felt like a funeral, and the nights we ended up fighting in the car because someone’s ego got bruised. We’ve basically been the poster children for "how NOT to do this."
But, somehow, we survived. We actually figured out how to make this sht work.
She finally decided it was time to stop keeping our stories private and started a YouTube channel. There’s no "relationship guru" crap there. She’s stripping it all down -talking about the sweat, the adrenaline, and the massive fuck-ups we made along the way. She’s sharing how we moved past the jealousy, how we filter out the time-wasters, and why the sex between just the two of us after a guest leaves is the most intense, visceral part of the whole deal.
We’re putting it all out there because we’re tired of seeing couples crash and burn over the same stupid mistakes we made ten years ago. We’ve even started putting together the actual scripts and "cheat codes" we use now to keep things smooth, safe, and hot as hell.
We’re curious - who else here is a "long-hauler"? How do you keep the spark from turning into a dumpster fire after two decades of marriage? What’s the cringiest "lifestyle" moment you’ve ever had?
Go check out her videos. It’s raw, it’s honest, and it might just save you a few years of therapy: https://www.youtube.com/@la-cortigiana/shorts
