Hi all, thought i could come on her looking for advice.
I am 25 and my husband is 35 and lately our sex life has gone stale. We were both very active 2 years ago having sex 6 times a week, now 6 times every 2 months. Recently i have had fantasies of trying someone "bigger" as i have only ever had 2 partners. We tried watching porn and the category BBC cuckhold really turned me on. I dont know if i should tell him or just do it on the side "kind of a one time secret" i would hate to ruin our marriage by just bringing this up. I have a black friend 5 min away from us that always makes sexual remarks and jokes and i kind of want to persue it JUST FOR THE SEX...