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Hi all, thought i could come on her looking for advice.
I am 25 and my husband is 35 and lately our sex life has gone stale. We were both very active 2 years ago having sex 6 times a week, now 6 times every 2 months. Recently i have had fantasies of trying someone "bigger" as i have only ever had 2 partners. We tried watching porn and the category BBC cuckhold really turned me on. I dont know if i should tell him or just do it on the side "kind of a one time secret" i would hate to ruin our marriage by just bringing this up. I have a black friend 5 min away from us that always makes sexual remarks and jokes and i kind of want to persue it JUST FOR THE SEX...
I think you can try this in secret. but if you tell me, maybe you'll even like it ;)
 
i was thinking the same, i am nervous that it will come out in the future as my husband and the guy in question do speak from time to time. i just dont know how to approach the whole situation....like do i go up to him "lets have sex" lol and what if he freaks out and tells my husband
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Hi all, thought i could come on her looking for advice.
I am 25 and my husband is 35 and lately our sex life has gone stale. We were both very active 2 years ago having sex 6 times a week, now 6 times every 2 months. Recently i have had fantasies of trying someone "bigger" as i have only ever had 2 partners. We tried watching porn and the category BBC cuckhold really turned me on. I dont know if i should tell him or just do it on the side "kind of a one time secret" i would hate to ruin our marriage by just bringing this up. I have a black friend 5 min away from us that always makes sexual remarks and jokes and i kind of want to persue it JUST FOR THE SEX...
Was hubby turned on and hard when you watched the BBC cuckold porn. If so I think you should raise it with him. Just say to him " I was really horny the other night watching the wife getting that BBC with her hubby watching. Did you get hard when he cum inside her. " If he says yes you are in a position to take it further and ask him what else really turned him on. Tell him you would like to see some more of it and watch him as the video progresses. Does he touch himself showing he is aroused. Does he lick his lips when the cuckold hubby in the video cleans up and enjoys the creampie. If he show the signs then you can make comments and ask him some direct questions. ie MMM - she is so enjoying that big cock. Wow - It must be so good having her cummy pussy cleaned like that. If he reacts the right way anything could happen. -
 
Was hubby turned on and hard when you watched the BBC cuckold porn. If so I think you should raise it with him. Just say to him " I was really horny the other night watching the wife getting that BBC with her hubby watching. Did you get hard when he cum inside her. " If he says yes you are in a position to take it further and ask him what else really turned him on. Tell him you would like to see some more of it and watch him as the video progresses. Does he touch himself showing he is aroused. Does he lick his lips when the cuckold hubby in the video cleans up and enjoys the creampie. If he show the signs then you can make comments and ask him some direct questions. ie MMM - she is so enjoying that big cock. Wow - It must be so good having her cummy pussy cleaned like that. If he reacts the right way anything could happen. -
Yes, I think this is a good approach to take. Keep watching cuckold porn together and bring him to orgasm every time with your mouth or hand. Take it slow and just mention how hot it is etc. If he is receptive then maybe try introducing it without the porn, but while you give him a handjob or during sex. Playfully ask what would it be like if you tried another mans cock. When he is deeper into the fantasy plant the seed of your friend. "Wow those black cocks look so good, do you think X is hung like that?" etc.
 
Hi all, thought i could come on her looking for advice.
I am 25 and my husband is 35 and lately our sex life has gone stale. We were both very active 2 years ago having sex 6 times a week, now 6 times every 2 months. Recently i have had fantasies of trying someone "bigger" as i have only ever had 2 partners. We tried watching porn and the category BBC cuckhold really turned me on. I dont know if i should tell him or just do it on the side "kind of a one time secret" i would hate to ruin our marriage by just bringing this up. I have a black friend 5 min away from us that always makes sexual remarks and jokes and i kind of want to persue it JUST FOR THE SEX...
if you do it without your husbands knowledge sorry but it makes you a cheater and you obviously don't love him very much, and your friend who knows your married and makes sexual remarks to you is garbage. BTW don't buy into this big cock is better crap, the fact is the most sensitive parts of the vagina are near the front. If you need something big try a dido instead of cheating on your husband
 
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Definitely bring it up to your hubby give him a chance and if not and you want to do it behind his back and with someone he talks to, all bad. It will come back on you. Keep watching porn and work on him, start with black dildos. Who knows he just might be into it.
Good Luck