Ya I’m a little nervous too. But the rule is we only go as far as I want to. Especially for the first time, my husband only gets to do what I allow him to do with her. And that’s fine with him. He’d be happy just to watch me with another woman lol. If he gets to join in even a little that’s a bonus. But in the moment maybe I won’t mind that at all. Maybe I’ll really enjoy watching him join in? Will only know once we start I guess.
I'd shared my wife with several different guys and we'd swapped with a couple that the wife was bi, that was the first time I saw my wife with another woman. But our first FFM was with my wife's cousin who actually looked like a twin sister to her. And I found out then that her cousin had been the first girl she'd ever been with back in their teens. With them looking so much alike even naked it made it even hotter. And they both went out of their way to please me as well as each other.