For the last several months my wife has not been involved in the lifestyle at all. She has been in a lull as I described in earlier posts. Well, this evening I am going to provide a bit of a nudge in the right direction. I have a friend James that I have been talking with for a few weeks that is WELL qualified. He is staying in a nearby hotel and will be able to host us if it goes down. My wife used to let me pick guys out and then she would wear a blindfold. I messed up a few times and she did not trust me anymore so she wanted to meet them. So, tonight it will go one of two ways. I have let her read some of his thread and she knows about him so I will either take her to a bar tonight and watch the game while James comes up to the bar to hit on her. If not that then I am going to tell her to get ready tonight because James is here and he wants you blindfolded and naked in his room tonight. I told her about going to watch the game tonight and she said she would be bored sitting there so I may just tell her the other. Although spontaneous hook ups are a lot of fun also. Hmmmm, what to do.