A question for the couples, what attributes do you consider indispensable for a bull to be considered top tier? (Physical attributes, attitude, etc).
A question for the couples, what attributes do you consider indispensable for a bull to be considered top tier? (Physical attributes, attitude, etc).
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Discretion. That’s all that’s necessary, anything else is optional.
Someone who is more physically attractive than me, more muscular than me, taller than me, and who has a bigger cock in comparison to me, all of which is not hard to find since I am none of those. I'm just a loving husband to the best wife in the world.
I would say discretion as well. But also a guy who knows how to be a bull or the alpha male without just being a dick and into hard fucking. There is way more to it and a smaller guy with the right attitude can be more fun than a big guy who just doesn't get it.
I agree with the discretion part as well. My wife's lover is a police officer and he insists on discretion totally since he is in a public position for an occupation that requires some measure of integrity. That is why we cannot film and take pics ever.
This is so true. So many guys that wannabe bulls (no pun intended) think just cause they are bigger than the Husband/Cuckold that's all that's needed.
I've been a Bull since I was 18 and I'm now 32 I was groomed before 18 by a very experienced couple that lived this wonderful lifestyle for many years.
Discretion, Respect, are the biggest things to follow I was taught and then Superior Physical Attributes come into play.
It's ultimately a 3 way relationship. And it's not just about having sex.
So many forget this and that's what separate us Real Alpha Bulls from the Wannabes that watch to much Pornhub.
Just my two cents.
We have a guy we see, younger, skinny need type, bigger dick than me. He's not our bull, it's just some semi-regular sex fun we all enjoy.
I will say my very conservative mid 50s wife LOVES when he's doing her hard from behind pulling her hair or with a firm grip on her hipps.
We're not real stingers, we don't go looking for others and none of our friends know we do this.
Wife and I do kinda size people up when we're out drinking and people watching.
She has commented on black guys (with a drink or two in her) and it's always a younger, 30-35ish, tall, fit, well dressed guys.
The main reason we enjoy our not so stud-ly friend is because he's polite, respectful, clean, easy to get along with and just right aggressive.
I will say my very conservative mid 50s wife LOVES when he's doing her hard from behind pulling her hair or with a firm grip on her hipps.
We're not real stingers, we don't go looking for others and none of our friends know we do this.
Wife and I do kinda size people up when we're out drinking and people watching.
She has commented on black guys (with a drink or two in her) and it's always a younger, 30-35ish, tall, fit, well dressed guys.
The main reason we enjoy our not so stud-ly friend is because he's polite, respectful, clean, easy to get along with and just right aggressive.
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I’d say good communication and boundaries with all parties, and knowing what everyone likes and gets out of this with mutual pleasure
Personality. Has to have a great attitude, we prefer slightly shy but confidant.
Dominant. Hung and imaginative. Creative in the whole cuck hotwife roles. Able to cater to the wife and cuck both.
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