Humiliation Question

[Rendezvous4us]

So I've been perusing this forum for a few weeks and have enjoyed reading some of the stories and seeing the pictures. As someone who is exceptionally turned on by the thought of seeing my wife with another man, it's refreshing seeing so many others who share the same fetish. It's not a topic one could just broach when having a few brews w/ your boys.

But I'm curious about those who are turned on by the humiliation aspect of this lifestyle; whether it's directed at themselves or their wives. Forgive me if I come off judgmental, but I wouldn't dream of referring to my wife as a dirty whore, cum slut, cock hungry bitch, etc. as I see may do on this site. What especially shocking are the pics I've come across with men writing exceptionally derogatory things on their partners bodies.

I've dabbled in the lifestyle with my ex-wife. The couple of times we were with another couple, mutual respect for everyone present was paramount. The sex was sensual, not rough. If at any point had the male gotten rough, called her a slut, etc, then the encounter would have ended right then and there. This woman was my (ex)wife; the mother of my children. She was my queen, albeit a queen that I loved to see with another man's dick in her mouth, but my queen nonetheless. She deserves respect.

I guess my question is this - for those of you who enjoy humiliating your wife, is this something that she's into as well or is she just going with the flow? Do you treat her in this manner 24 hours a day or is it just role playing while having sex? After referring to her as a slut, cum dumpster, etc, do you have an otherwise normal relationship outside the bedroom?

 

[Ocguy]

My wife (ex) was always respected, even when it came to potential lovers, if they came out aggressive on a meet and greet she wouldn’t want anything to do with them.

That being said, once in the bedroom and the action started she loved being called just about anything but a cunt. Her mind set was if she’s getting fucked by anyone other then me she was a married whore, slut, bitch, married cum dump, it really got her going. Specially when they are unloading into her. We loved it.

 

[Ocguy]

My wife (ex) was always respected, even when it came to potential lovers, if they came out aggressive on a meet and greet she wouldn’t want anything to do with them.

That being said, once in the bedroom and the action started she loved being called just about anything but a cunt. Her mind set was if she’s getting fucked by anyone other then me she was a married whore, slut, bitch, married cum dump, it really got her going. Specially when they are unloading into her. We loved it.

After the 3rd romp with her big dick coworker the wife had me talk with him as he didn’t like to call her any dirty names and really wasn’t treating her how she wanted.

I basically told him you’re here to use her and treat her like slut you just paid for sex. It took some time and a lot of dirty talk from my wife. “ is that all you got, fuck me like you paid for it” or I always liked when she tell him “ cum in my slutty married pussy”.

It took a few times before he understood and it took off from there.

 

[Rendezvous4us]

After the 3rd romp with her big dick coworker the wife had me talk with him as he didn’t like to call her any dirty names and really wasn’t treating her how she wanted.

I basically told him you’re here to use her and treat her like slut you just paid for sex. It took some time and a lot of dirty talk from my wife. “ is that all you got, fuck me like you paid for it” or I always liked when she tell him “ cum in my slutty married pussy”.

It took a few times before he understood and it took off from there.

I guess that's what I'm looking for. If that's what floats her boat, power to you (and her). I reckon it's a matter of personal preference. In my earlier years, I had a girl once tell me, "cum in my fucking face." The request took me by surprise. I did as she requested and enjoyed doing so. But it also made me feel a bit guilty at the same time.

 

[Ht805cpl]

So I've been perusing this forum for a few weeks and have enjoyed reading some of the stories and seeing the pictures. As someone who is exceptionally turned on by the thought of seeing my wife with another man, it's refreshing seeing so many others who share the same fetish. It's not a topic one could just broach when having a few brews w/ your boys.

But I'm curious about those who are turned on by the humiliation aspect of this lifestyle; whether it's directed at themselves or their wives. Forgive me if I come off judgmental, but I wouldn't dream of referring to my wife as a dirty whore, cum slut, cock hungry bitch, etc. as I see may do on this site. What especially shocking are the pics I've come across with men writing exceptionally derogatory things on their partners bodies.

I've dabbled in the lifestyle with my ex-wife. The couple of times we were with another couple, mutual respect for everyone present was paramount. The sex was sensual, not rough. If at any point had the male gotten rough, called her a slut, etc, then the encounter would have ended right then and there. This woman was my (ex)wife; the mother of my children. She was my queen, albeit a queen that I loved to see with another man's dick in her mouth, but my queen nonetheless. She deserves respect.

I guess my question is this - for those of you who enjoy humiliating your wife, is this something that she's into as well or is she just going with the flow? Do you treat her in this manner 24 hours a day or is it just role playing while having sex? After referring to her as a slut, cum dumpster, etc, do you have an otherwise normal relationship outside the bedroom?

You have to remember most of the posting on this site is fantasy or BS, so you must sort through the bs and real posts. For us this site is more entertainment than living the life style. I’m with you, no need to degrade my lady, she is not fond of it, there are times when she is really turned on she will say something like fuck me harder or ask for something kinky but she is not into being called a slut or whore, and she will let you know if the conversation or action is out of line. We are just two people in love with each other and enjoy sex with others, sometimes very hot and wild sex but at the end of the night we are going home together and making love to each other.

 

[gmywifeishot]

I’d really like to hear from the ladies who enjoy being called names, being degraded, etc. Is it hotter to have this done to you in front of your husband?

 

[Catholic_Wife]

There is certain ways and times of doing things.

In some contexts what seems a humiliation might feel a compliment. Wife here enjoys to be called a cumslut or a fucking whore whenever she is purposely acting like a sexual vixen for husband and other men, because that is pleasurable and kinda is the point of our sexual adventures. But that doesn't mean it would be acceptable to be called these names in other contexts or with another man who is not that much closer of us. We just won't accept.

Humans are beings of interpretations and contexts.

Agreed on the fantasy issue. With all due respect to anybody here in the forum, but the very degrading or relegation acts like "bull came here fucked up the wife and beat the hell of the crap husband" is the kind of sexual release proper only to porn movies and its industry. That would be unlikely for any couple in good terms.

 

[keylife022]

So I've been perusing this forum for a few weeks and have enjoyed reading some of the stories and seeing the pictures. As someone who is exceptionally turned on by the thought of seeing my wife with another man, it's refreshing seeing so many others who share the same fetish. It's not a topic one could just broach when having a few brews w/ your boys.

But I'm curious about those who are turned on by the humiliation aspect of this lifestyle; whether it's directed at themselves or their wives. Forgive me if I come off judgmental, but I wouldn't dream of referring to my wife as a dirty whore, cum slut, cock hungry bitch, etc. as I see may do on this site. What especially shocking are the pics I've come across with men writing exceptionally derogatory things on their partners bodies.

I've dabbled in the lifestyle with my ex-wife. The couple of times we were with another couple, mutual respect for everyone present was paramount. The sex was sensual, not rough. If at any point had the male gotten rough, called her a slut, etc, then the encounter would have ended right then and there. This woman was my (ex)wife; the mother of my children. She was my queen, albeit a queen that I loved to see with another man's dick in her mouth, but my queen nonetheless. She deserves respect.

I guess my question is this - for those of you who enjoy humiliating your wife, is this something that she's into as well or is she just going with the flow? Do you treat her in this manner 24 hours a day or is it just role playing while having sex? After referring to her as a slut, cum dumpster, etc, do you have an otherwise normal relationship outside the bedroom?

Because you wouldn’t consider those options, she may want someone who does. It’s not love. It’s animalistic lust. Fantasy fulfillment.

 

[cuck52]

So I've been perusing this forum for a few weeks and have enjoyed reading some of the stories and seeing the pictures. As someone who is exceptionally turned on by the thought of seeing my wife with another man, it's refreshing seeing so many others who share the same fetish. It's not a topic one could just broach when having a few brews w/ your boys.

But I'm curious about those who are turned on by the humiliation aspect of this lifestyle; whether it's directed at themselves or their wives. Forgive me if I come off judgmental, but I wouldn't dream of referring to my wife as a dirty whore, cum slut, cock hungry bitch, etc. as I see may do on this site. What especially shocking are the pics I've come across with men writing exceptionally derogatory things on their partners bodies.

I've dabbled in the lifestyle with my ex-wife. The couple of times we were with another couple, mutual respect for everyone present was paramount. The sex was sensual, not rough. If at any point had the male gotten rough, called her a slut, etc, then the encounter would have ended right then and there. This woman was my (ex)wife; the mother of my children. She was my queen, albeit a queen that I loved to see with another man's dick in her mouth, but my queen nonetheless. She deserves respect.

I guess my question is this - for those of you who enjoy humiliating your wife, is this something that she's into as well or is she just going with the flow? Do you treat her in this manner 24 hours a day or is it just role playing while having sex? After referring to her as a slut, cum dumpster, etc, do you have an otherwise normal relationship outside the bedroom?

I want my wife to humiliate me

 

[Egyptianbull]

So I've been perusing this forum for a few weeks and have enjoyed reading some of the stories and seeing the pictures. As someone who is exceptionally turned on by the thought of seeing my wife with another man, it's refreshing seeing so many others who share the same fetish. It's not a topic one could just broach when having a few brews w/ your boys.

But I'm curious about those who are turned on by the humiliation aspect of this lifestyle; whether it's directed at themselves or their wives. Forgive me if I come off judgmental, but I wouldn't dream of referring to my wife as a dirty whore, cum slut, cock hungry bitch, etc. as I see may do on this site. What especially shocking are the pics I've come across with men writing exceptionally derogatory things on their partners bodies.

I've dabbled in the lifestyle with my ex-wife. The couple of times we were with another couple, mutual respect for everyone present was paramount. The sex was sensual, not rough. If at any point had the male gotten rough, called her a slut, etc, then the encounter would have ended right then and there. This woman was my (ex)wife; the mother of my children. She was my queen, albeit a queen that I loved to see with another man's dick in her mouth, but my queen nonetheless. She deserves respect.

I guess my question is this - for those of you who enjoy humiliating your wife, is this something that she's into as well or is she just going with the flow? Do you treat her in this manner 24 hours a day or is it just role playing while having sex? After referring to her as a slut, cum dumpster, etc, do you have an otherwise normal relationship outside the bedroom?

That's what i am saying
Respect is the key of a successful relationship
If i fucked you or your wife it doesn't mean she is a whore
Cuckold is a loving husband who loves his wives joy
The bull is a good friend who gives the hot lady the pleasure she needs
Respect each other please

 

[KuckKevin]

Agreed on the fantasy issue. With all due respect to anybody here in the forum, but the very degrading or relegation acts like "bull came here fucked up the wife and beat the hell of the crap husband" is the kind of sexual release proper only to porn movies and its industry. That would be unlikely for any couple in good teterms.

Indeed.
We are a 24/7 cuckold/hotwife couple. I am 24/7 in chastity. And its not fantasy. She does fuck lots of guys every week. Her lust is my goal.
But... like you say it.... "Bull came over to fuck her" happens a lot. Mostly (but not only) when I am home. But NEVER he will beat the crap out of me! She protects me, i protect her. We love each other. We have completely open communication. Only she can humiliate/beat me! Only I can fall asleep in her arms (and vice versa).

 

[toolman2c]

There is certain ways and times of doing things.

In some contexts what seems a humiliation might feel a compliment. Wife here enjoys to be called a cumslut or a fucking whore whenever she is purposely acting like a sexual vixen for husband and other men, because that is pleasurable and kinda is the point of our sexual adventures. But that doesn't mean it would be acceptable to be called these names in other contexts or with another man who is not that much closer of us. We just won't accept.

Humans are beings of interpretations and contexts.

Agreed on the fantasy issue. With all due respect to anybody here in the forum, but the very degrading or relegation acts like "bull came here fucked up the wife and beat the hell of the crap husband" is the kind of sexual release proper only to porn movies and its industry. That would be unlikely for any couple in good terms.

Good replay, i like the way U think. Im also a fan of U btw.