Humiliation Question

[Rendezvous4us]

So I've been perusing this forum for a few weeks and have enjoyed reading some of the stories and seeing the pictures. As someone who is exceptionally turned on by the thought of seeing my wife with another man, it's refreshing seeing so many others who share the same fetish. It's not a topic one could just broach when having a few brews w/ your boys.

But I'm curious about those who are turned on by the humiliation aspect of this lifestyle; whether it's directed at themselves or their wives. Forgive me if I come off judgmental, but I wouldn't dream of referring to my wife as a dirty whore, cum slut, cock hungry bitch, etc. as I see may do on this site. What especially shocking are the pics I've come across with men writing exceptionally derogatory things on their partners bodies.

I've dabbled in the lifestyle with my ex-wife. The couple of times we were with another couple, mutual respect for everyone present was paramount. The sex was sensual, not rough. If at any point had the male gotten rough, called her a slut, etc, then the encounter would have ended right then and there. This woman was my (ex)wife; the ...... of my children. She was my queen, albeit a queen that I loved to see with another man's dick in her mouth, but my queen nonetheless. She deserves respect.

I guess my question is this - for those of you who enjoy humiliating your wife, is this something that she's into as well or is she just going with the flow? Do you treat her in this manner 24 hours a day or is it just role playing while having sex? After referring to her as a slut, cum dumpster, etc, do you have an otherwise normal relationship outside the bedroom?

 

[Ocguy]

My wife (ex) was always respected, even when it came to potential lovers, if they came out aggressive on a meet and greet she wouldn’t want anything to do with them.

That being said, once in the bedroom and the action started she loved being called just about anything but a cunt. Her mind set was if she’s getting fucked by anyone other then me she was a married whore, slut, bitch, married cum dump, it really got her going. Specially when they are unloading into her. We loved it.

 

[Ocguy]

My wife (ex) was always respected, even when it came to potential lovers, if they came out aggressive on a meet and greet she wouldn’t want anything to do with them.

That being said, once in the bedroom and the action started she loved being called just about anything but a cunt. Her mind set was if she’s getting fucked by anyone other then me she was a married whore, slut, bitch, married cum dump, it really got her going. Specially when they are unloading into her. We loved it.

After the 3rd romp with her big dick coworker the wife had me talk with him as he didn’t like to call her any dirty names and really wasn’t treating her how she wanted.

I basically told him you’re here to use her and treat her like slut you just paid for sex. It took some time and a lot of dirty talk from my wife. “ is that all you got, fuck me like you paid for it” or I always liked when she tell him “ cum in my slutty married pussy”.

It took a few times before he understood and it took off from there.

 

[Rendezvous4us]

After the 3rd romp with her big dick coworker the wife had me talk with him as he didn’t like to call her any dirty names and really wasn’t treating her how she wanted.

I basically told him you’re here to use her and treat her like slut you just paid for sex. It took some time and a lot of dirty talk from my wife. “ is that all you got, fuck me like you paid for it” or I always liked when she tell him “ cum in my slutty married pussy”.

It took a few times before he understood and it took off from there.

I guess that's what I'm looking for. If that's what floats her boat, power to you (and her). I reckon it's a matter of personal preference. In my earlier years, I had a girl once tell me, "cum in my fucking face." The request took me by surprise. I did as she requested and enjoyed doing so. But it also made me feel a bit guilty at the same time.

 

[Ht805cpl]

So I've been perusing this forum for a few weeks and have enjoyed reading some of the stories and seeing the pictures. As someone who is exceptionally turned on by the thought of seeing my wife with another man, it's refreshing seeing so many others who share the same fetish. It's not a topic one could just broach when having a few brews w/ your boys.

But I'm curious about those who are turned on by the humiliation aspect of this lifestyle; whether it's directed at themselves or their wives. Forgive me if I come off judgmental, but I wouldn't dream of referring to my wife as a dirty whore, cum slut, cock hungry bitch, etc. as I see may do on this site. What especially shocking are the pics I've come across with men writing exceptionally derogatory things on their partners bodies.

I've dabbled in the lifestyle with my ex-wife. The couple of times we were with another couple, mutual respect for everyone present was paramount. The sex was sensual, not rough. If at any point had the male gotten rough, called her a slut, etc, then the encounter would have ended right then and there. This woman was my (ex)wife; the ...... of my children. She was my queen, albeit a queen that I loved to see with another man's dick in her mouth, but my queen nonetheless. She deserves respect.

I guess my question is this - for those of you who enjoy humiliating your wife, is this something that she's into as well or is she just going with the flow? Do you treat her in this manner 24 hours a day or is it just role playing while having sex? After referring to her as a slut, cum dumpster, etc, do you have an otherwise normal relationship outside the bedroom?

You have to remember most of the posting on this site is fantasy or BS, so you must sort through the bs and real posts. For us this site is more entertainment than living the life style. I’m with you, no need to degrade my lady, she is not fond of it, there are times when she is really turned on she will say something like fuck me harder or ask for something kinky but she is not into being called a slut or whore, and she will let you know if the conversation or action is out of line. We are just two people in love with each other and enjoy sex with others, sometimes very hot and wild sex but at the end of the night we are going home together and making love to each other.

 

[gmywifeishot]

I’d really like to hear from the ladies who enjoy being called names, being degraded, etc. Is it hotter to have this done to you in front of your husband?

 

[Catholic_Wife]

There is certain ways and times of doing things.

In some contexts what seems a humiliation might feel a compliment. Wife here enjoys to be called a cumslut or a fucking whore whenever she is purposely acting like a sexual vixen for husband and other men, because that is pleasurable and kinda is the point of our sexual adventures. But that doesn't mean it would be acceptable to be called these names in other contexts or with another man who is not that much closer of us. We just won't accept.

Humans are beings of interpretations and contexts.

Agreed on the fantasy issue. With all due respect to anybody here in the forum, but the very degrading or relegation acts like "bull came here fucked up the wife and beat the hell of the crap husband" is the kind of sexual release proper only to porn movies and its industry. That would be unlikely for any couple in good terms.

 

[keylife022]

So I've been perusing this forum for a few weeks and have enjoyed reading some of the stories and seeing the pictures. As someone who is exceptionally turned on by the thought of seeing my wife with another man, it's refreshing seeing so many others who share the same fetish. It's not a topic one could just broach when having a few brews w/ your boys.

But I'm curious about those who are turned on by the humiliation aspect of this lifestyle; whether it's directed at themselves or their wives. Forgive me if I come off judgmental, but I wouldn't dream of referring to my wife as a dirty whore, cum slut, cock hungry bitch, etc. as I see may do on this site. What especially shocking are the pics I've come across with men writing exceptionally derogatory things on their partners bodies.

I've dabbled in the lifestyle with my ex-wife. The couple of times we were with another couple, mutual respect for everyone present was paramount. The sex was sensual, not rough. If at any point had the male gotten rough, called her a slut, etc, then the encounter would have ended right then and there. This woman was my (ex)wife; the ...... of my children. She was my queen, albeit a queen that I loved to see with another man's dick in her mouth, but my queen nonetheless. She deserves respect.

I guess my question is this - for those of you who enjoy humiliating your wife, is this something that she's into as well or is she just going with the flow? Do you treat her in this manner 24 hours a day or is it just role playing while having sex? After referring to her as a slut, cum dumpster, etc, do you have an otherwise normal relationship outside the bedroom?

Because you wouldn’t consider those options, she may want someone who does. It’s not love. It’s animalistic lust. Fantasy fulfillment.

 

[cuck52]

So I've been perusing this forum for a few weeks and have enjoyed reading some of the stories and seeing the pictures. As someone who is exceptionally turned on by the thought of seeing my wife with another man, it's refreshing seeing so many others who share the same fetish. It's not a topic one could just broach when having a few brews w/ your boys.

But I'm curious about those who are turned on by the humiliation aspect of this lifestyle; whether it's directed at themselves or their wives. Forgive me if I come off judgmental, but I wouldn't dream of referring to my wife as a dirty whore, cum slut, cock hungry bitch, etc. as I see may do on this site. What especially shocking are the pics I've come across with men writing exceptionally derogatory things on their partners bodies.

I've dabbled in the lifestyle with my ex-wife. The couple of times we were with another couple, mutual respect for everyone present was paramount. The sex was sensual, not rough. If at any point had the male gotten rough, called her a slut, etc, then the encounter would have ended right then and there. This woman was my (ex)wife; the ...... of my children. She was my queen, albeit a queen that I loved to see with another man's dick in her mouth, but my queen nonetheless. She deserves respect.

I guess my question is this - for those of you who enjoy humiliating your wife, is this something that she's into as well or is she just going with the flow? Do you treat her in this manner 24 hours a day or is it just role playing while having sex? After referring to her as a slut, cum dumpster, etc, do you have an otherwise normal relationship outside the bedroom?

I want my wife to humiliate me

 

[Egyptianbull]

So I've been perusing this forum for a few weeks and have enjoyed reading some of the stories and seeing the pictures. As someone who is exceptionally turned on by the thought of seeing my wife with another man, it's refreshing seeing so many others who share the same fetish. It's not a topic one could just broach when having a few brews w/ your boys.

But I'm curious about those who are turned on by the humiliation aspect of this lifestyle; whether it's directed at themselves or their wives. Forgive me if I come off judgmental, but I wouldn't dream of referring to my wife as a dirty whore, cum slut, cock hungry bitch, etc. as I see may do on this site. What especially shocking are the pics I've come across with men writing exceptionally derogatory things on their partners bodies.

I've dabbled in the lifestyle with my ex-wife. The couple of times we were with another couple, mutual respect for everyone present was paramount. The sex was sensual, not rough. If at any point had the male gotten rough, called her a slut, etc, then the encounter would have ended right then and there. This woman was my (ex)wife; the ...... of my children. She was my queen, albeit a queen that I loved to see with another man's dick in her mouth, but my queen nonetheless. She deserves respect.

I guess my question is this - for those of you who enjoy humiliating your wife, is this something that she's into as well or is she just going with the flow? Do you treat her in this manner 24 hours a day or is it just role playing while having sex? After referring to her as a slut, cum dumpster, etc, do you have an otherwise normal relationship outside the bedroom?

That's what i am saying
Respect is the key of a successful relationship
If i fucked you or your wife it doesn't mean she is a whore
Cuckold is a loving husband who loves his wives joy
The bull is a good friend who gives the hot lady the pleasure she needs
Respect each other please

 

[KuckKevin]

Agreed on the fantasy issue. With all due respect to anybody here in the forum, but the very degrading or relegation acts like "bull came here fucked up the wife and beat the hell of the crap husband" is the kind of sexual release proper only to porn movies and its industry. That would be unlikely for any couple in good teterms.

Indeed.
We are a 24/7 cuckold/hotwife couple. I am 24/7 in chastity. And its not fantasy. She does fuck lots of guys every week. Her lust is my goal.
But... like you say it.... "Bull came over to fuck her" happens a lot. Mostly (but not only) when I am home. But NEVER he will beat the crap out of me! She protects me, i protect her. We love each other. We have completely open communication. Only she can humiliate/beat me! Only I can fall asleep in her arms (and vice versa).

 

[toolman2c]

There is certain ways and times of doing things.

In some contexts what seems a humiliation might feel a compliment. Wife here enjoys to be called a cumslut or a fucking whore whenever she is purposely acting like a sexual vixen for husband and other men, because that is pleasurable and kinda is the point of our sexual adventures. But that doesn't mean it would be acceptable to be called these names in other contexts or with another man who is not that much closer of us. We just won't accept.

Humans are beings of interpretations and contexts.

Agreed on the fantasy issue. With all due respect to anybody here in the forum, but the very degrading or relegation acts like "bull came here fucked up the wife and beat the hell of the crap husband" is the kind of sexual release proper only to porn movies and its industry. That would be unlikely for any couple in good terms.

Good replay, i like the way U think. Im also a fan of U btw.

 

[sub2femdom]

There is certain ways and times of doing things.

In some contexts what seems a humiliation might feel a compliment. Wife here enjoys to be called a cumslut or a fucking whore whenever she is purposely acting like a sexual vixen for husband and other men, because that is pleasurable and kinda is the point of our sexual adventures. But that doesn't mean it would be acceptable to be called these names in other contexts or with another man who is not that much closer of us. We just won't accept.

Humans are beings of interpretations and contexts.

Agreed on the fantasy issue. With all due respect to anybody here in the forum, but the very degrading or relegation acts like "bull came here fucked up the wife and beat the hell of the crap husband" is the kind of sexual release proper only to porn movies and its industry. That would be unlikely for any couple in good terms.

This

 

[cuck52]

I love my wife to call me her bitch while she fucks me in the ass with a dildo..

 

[jusme]

So I've been perusing this forum for a few weeks and have enjoyed reading some of the stories and seeing the pictures. As someone who is exceptionally turned on by the thought of seeing my wife with another man, it's refreshing seeing so many others who share the same fetish. It's not a topic one could just broach when having a few brews w/ your boys.

But I'm curious about those who are turned on by the humiliation aspect of this lifestyle; whether it's directed at themselves or their wives. Forgive me if I come off judgmental, but I wouldn't dream of referring to my wife as a dirty whore, cum slut, cock hungry bitch, etc. as I see may do on this site. What especially shocking are the pics I've come across with men writing exceptionally derogatory things on their partners bodies.

I've dabbled in the lifestyle with my ex-wife. The couple of times we were with another couple, mutual respect for everyone present was paramount. The sex was sensual, not rough. If at any point had the male gotten rough, called her a slut, etc, then the encounter would have ended right then and there. This woman was my (ex)wife; the ...... of my children. She was my queen, albeit a queen that I loved to see with another man's dick in her mouth, but my queen nonetheless. She deserves respect.

I guess my question is this - for those of you who enjoy humiliating your wife, is this something that she's into as well or is she just going with the flow? Do you treat her in this manner 24 hours a day or is it just role playing while having sex? After referring to her as a slut, cum dumpster, etc, do you have an otherwise normal relationship outside the bedroom?

Ahhh nice to see someone with the same mind concept of a woman. I always have had respect for women. They are there to be admired as well to sex objects. My ex's (exwife and exgf's) have enjoyed multiple partners with not many mistreating them. A few tried, but soon got put down, especially from my exwife. As for the rough side of sex there is only my present wife, and one other gf I have swung with, that did not like rough sex and by that I mean physically rough. So degrading any person verbally is definitely not on my radar

 

[coastalkid]

There are so many strange dichotomies that circle around the various iterations of this lifestyle. Don't disrespect my wife but do disrespect my husband. She likes to do things she doesn't do with her husband. She has no rules, he has a list of 'em.

It's the extreme (most likely fake) situations of humiliation you read about here that sound contrived. If a husband is jealously protective regarding how his wife is treated/respected wouldn't it be difficult for a wife not to share that feeling for her husband? On one hand a wife will cherish her husband's devotion and at the same time her devotion to him is diluted by her having other lovers. That sounds off.

Some husband's say they want the humiliation, I get that. I've always wanted my wife to try a bigger cock so, my wife teases me about having a small one. The thing is I know I'm not really THAT small. I'm an average 5.5 in and thick. It's fun and arousing to listen to her engage in the teasing. Fun is fun and it should be easy to tell when it's not fun. I've called my wife a slut during sex and we both know neither one of us believe that, it's just for fun.

All of us are biased by our experiences and mine is deeply ingrained from my experience as a middle school Math teacher. I routinely saw kids bullied/humiliated by others. Often times the victim was convinced of their inferiority to the point of needing counseling. They had been so consistently humiliated that believed they deserved to feel undesired/useless. Most of these kids had been labeled a loser long ago, way back in elementary school. I saw this pattern over and over.

If it's just a game, it's still a dangerous one. Just like wives that don't really know what it's like to be a hot wife until they finally do it, husbands (and wives) don't REALLY know what the results of humiliation will be until they do it. No one knows what the accumulative effect will be over time for either the husband or the wife. Given enough time and reinforcement people will steadfastly believe and carry that belief to the grave with them. It happens with religion, politics, almost anything including your own value as a person.

 

[owlmale]

More humiliating to the cuck the way I see it.

 

[Robert Smith]

I can only speak for the couples I was with when I was a bull before meeting Elaine. One wife told me her husband was an alpha men in his personal life and was president of a successful business. But in the bedroom she totally humiated him by taking pics of him sucking cock and getting fucked hard by bulls. Even asked men to cum on his face after fucking her. The next morning the were typical married couple

 

[toolman2c]

There are so many strange dichotomies that circle around the various iterations of this lifestyle. Don't disrespect my wife but do disrespect my husband. She likes to do things she doesn't do with her husband. She has no rules, he has a list of 'em.

It's the extreme (most likely fake) situations of humiliation you read about here that sound contrived. If a husband is jealously protective regarding how his wife is treated/respected wouldn't it be difficult for a wife not to share that feeling for her husband? On one hand a wife will cherish her husband's devotion and at the same time her devotion to him is diluted by her having other lovers. That sounds off.

Some husband's say they want the humiliation, I get that. I've always wanted my wife to try a bigger cock so, my wife teases me about having a small one. The thing is I know I'm not really THAT small. I'm an average 5.5 in and thick. It's fun and arousing to listen to her engage in the teasing. Fun is fun and it should be easy to tell when it's not fun. I've called my wife a slut during sex and we both know neither one of us believe that, it's just for fun.

All of us are biased by our experiences and mine is deeply ingrained from my experience as a middle school Math teacher. I routinely saw kids bullied/humiliated by others. Often times the victim was convinced of their inferiority to the point of needing counseling. They had been so consistently humiliated that believed they deserved to feel undesired/useless. Most of these kids had been labeled a loser long ago, way back in elementary school. I saw this pattern over and over.

If it's just a game, it's still a dangerous one. Just like wives that don't really know what it's like to be a hot wife until they finally do it, husbands (and wives) don't REALLY know what the results of humiliation will be until they do it. No one knows what the accumulative effect will be over time for either the husband or the wife. Given enough time and reinforcement people will steadfastly believe and carry that belief to the grave with them. It happens with religion, politics, almost anything including your own value as a person.

TY for a good read, has your wife becum a hot wife? I real curious.

 

[coastalkid]

TY for a good read, has your wife becum a hot wife? I real curious.

No, and probably never will. She has at least come around to dirty talk in bed about having sex with other (bigger) men. I think she has finally understood that just because we fantasize/role play it doesn't mean anything more than what it is, fantasy.

I will say that her knowing that I'm not expecting her to do anything in real life has relaxed her attitude. For the longest time she never said a word (or even moaning) when we had sex. She said she was always afraid of being embarrassed if our ...... overheard us. I think that was just an excuse to stay in her comfort zone.

Now that we're both retired we have moved to our vacation home and we have complete privacy there. That privacy along with her relaxed attitude has allowed her to make noises, spin stories and have sex all over the house (well, it is a small house). Another thing has been the dirty talk and her imagination, she has totally surprised me with some of the things tumbling around in her head.

I asked her to start talking in bed and she has been very good at it. I know she's doing it for me. I know she wants me to be happy. She just can't do the hot wife thing so, rather than ...... off the fantasy she's compromising the best she can. I'm trying to spend more time being thankful for what I do have and less time about the things I don't. Me, I'm clinging to never say never!