A shift towards being Bi Or just cuck lust

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Any Husbands who can relate would love to chat and share experiences. Background - At first, I watched my wife getting fucked, that was my focused, he was just the cock fucking her. It was like watching porn, the guy was the performer but the center of my attention was the woman, her body, her tits, her cunt.
But over time my focus shifted to him, his body, his muscles, his cock and balls. I found I was watching him and my wife was just the vessel he was fucking.

I have sucked him several times and he has fucked me once. I wanted to do it.

So what does that mean? I still desire my wife. When he is not around we make love, we fuck. I want to fuck her. But I find I think of him naked, have masturbated thinking of his big cock. When he comes over to fuck my wife, I want to suck him, submit to him if he would want it.

I guess I am bisexual, but if I am honest with myself, I feel there is a stronger desire to be with him than my wife.

Is this normal? Is my sexual desire for him just a result of being in this cuckold relationship or am I more gay than straight? (I now find myself looking at guys, wondering what their cocks look like, what they would look like naked. Something I never consciously did before.)
 
I think you have awakened the bi feelings that many many guys have but only find out about when something like this arises. You are also infatuated with him. It is new and exciting. You are an object of attention and desire and get to experience bringing a man to orgasm. Now you see some of what women experience. That is powerful. I suspect the infatuation will wear off over time and you will learn to balance the bi life with your marriage. Until then, keep your head and pay special attention to your wife so she doesn't feel like the relationship is slipping away.

And enjoy it.
 
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I think you have awakened the bi feelings that many many guys have but only find out about when something like this arises. You are also infatuated with him. It is new and exciting. You are an object of attention and desire and get to experience bringing a man to orgasm. Now you see some of what women experience. That is powerful. I suspect the infatuation will wear off over time and you will learn to balance the bi life with your marriage. Until then, keep you head and pay special attention to your wife so she doesn't feel like the relationship is slipping away.

And enjoy it.
Great advice. I wish I was stuck with this problem lol
 
I think part of this is the transference of the excitement you see your guy friend having at fucking your wife. It's hot, she and he get off on it and your super turned on by what he's doing to her. At some point you figure out that its a turn on to have that attention directed your way. The attraction (I think) comes from seeing over and over how much your wife gets off on it. When I first got sexually active anything to do with guys was pretty distant. I wanted to see 2 woman together. As a practical matter it was always easier to find another guy for mfm and I think for some of the path your going down happens. Interesting that you have a stronger desire for him than your wife. Is that just sexually that the thought of being with him sexually is more of a turn on or is it more than that? I think guys can feel that NRE (new relationship excitement) as well so perhaps that is it. My wife is always concerned about my fucking other woman as she believes there is more of an emotional involvement than with men. That said she's had her share of guys that got attached and had a hard time appreciating that for her it was just sex and she would cut them loose. How does your spouse feel about this?
 
Thanks, if its pretty common I wish more husbands were willing to share their take on it, and how much if any it progressed. It cant be a bigger deal than letting strangers have fun with your wife, why not make it hotter.
With most couples it starts out with hubby being a bit awkward and not too involved. As he sees the pleasure that his wife gets from the Bull's cock and gets so aroused himself that he is ready to clean the Bull's semen from her freshly fucked pussy he gets more attracted to that cock. Once he feels a big hard cock pulsing and throbbing in his mouth he is ready to share with the wife.
 

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With most couples it starts out with hubby being a bit awkward and not too involved. As he sees the pleasure that his wife gets from the Bull's cock and gets so aroused himself that he is ready to clean the Bull's semen from her freshly fucked pussy he gets more attracted to that cock. Once he feels a big hard cock pulsing and throbbing in his mouth he is ready to share with the wife.
Until you go there, it is hard to imagine how enjoyable the feel of a cock in your mouth is and how tasting the product of your work to bring a man to orgasm can please and satisfy you.
 
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Thanks, if its pretty common I wish more husbands were willing to share their take on it, and how much if any it progressed. It cant be a bigger deal than letting strangers have fun with your wife, why not make it hotter.
Right. Of the things that can go wrong in relationships, sucking a cock is very low impact. Nobody's going to leave you and run away with a boyfriend over getting a BJ. The worst thing is they won't come back for more.
 
With most couples it starts out with hubby being a bit awkward and not too involved. As he sees the pleasure that his wife gets from the Bull's cock and gets so aroused himself that he is ready to clean the Bull's semen from her freshly fucked pussy he gets more attracted to that cock. Once he feels a big hard cock pulsing and throbbing in his mouth he is ready to share with the wife.
I think my husband may be ready for this. He just has to get overheated in the moment and I think it will happen.
 
With most couples it starts out with hubby being a bit awkward and not too involved. As he sees the pleasure that his wife gets from the Bull's cock and gets so aroused himself that he is ready to clean the Bull's semen from her freshly fucked pussy he gets more attracted to that cock. Once he feels a big hard cock pulsing and throbbing in his mouth he is ready to share with the wife.
Wonder what that would be like?
 
Any Husbands who can relate would love to chat and share experiences. Background - At first, I watched my wife getting fucked, that was my focused, he was just the cock fucking her. It was like watching porn, the guy was the performer but the center of my attention was the woman, her body, her tits, her cunt.
But over time my focus shifted to him, his body, his muscles, his cock and balls. I found I was watching him and my wife was just the vessel he was fucking.

I have sucked him several times and he has fucked me once. I wanted to do it.

So what does that mean? I still desire my wife. When he is not around we make love, we fuck. I want to fuck her. But I find I think of him naked, have masturbated thinking of his big cock. When he comes over to fuck my wife, I want to suck him, submit to him if he would want it.

I guess I am bisexual, but if I am honest with myself, I feel there is a stronger desire to be with him than my wife.

Is this normal? Is my sexual desire for him just a result of being in this cuckold relationship or am I more gay than straight? (I now find myself looking at guys, wondering what their cocks look like, what they would look like naked. Something I never consciously did before.
I can definitely relate. When we first started the lifestyle I had NO interest in sexual contact with other men. Like you I was about seeing the wife being pleased by another man and getting off on watching her. Also like you, my interested turned towards the guy specially his cock. I became turned on by the idea of touching or sucking one. I started by experimenting with someone who had experience . Over time my interest change to where I am today. I have had oral sex with 21 different men, sucked off 9 of them, and had anal sex twice. I have one guy I have been servicing regularly for about 5 years and sucked him off over 20 times.

As far as what does it mean, I can't speak for you. As for as me, I do not consider myself a bisexual man. I say this because I have met bisexual men before and unlike them I do not require the intimacy that they do. I do consider myself bi-friendly or cock-friendly and in that I mean that as part of a MFM I am open to doing certain sexual things with the other guy as part of our play. However, I can have solo adventure as well but those are centered on me servicing other men orally. I have received as well but at least for the moment my focus is on giving.

You mentioned a strong desire to be with him but it is hard to say what this means without knowing more, but I would say that I think it is right that you have a sexual desire or sexual attraction to the other guy. I think your normal, I think I am normal, and everyone else who pursues their sexual interests whether it is with a man or a women. I am not a cuck but do not believe your feelings are as a result of this. I look at other men and think or wonder the same tings as far as what their cocks look like, etc. I also look at women and think the same thing. My philosophy as far as MY sexual desires is to keep an open-mind, don't judge, and have fun. I would offer you the same advice and don't think to much about putting a label on yourself, just go with it and enjoy the experiences. Best of luck.
 
I hope you start licking her pussy clean after you fuck her and also after her bull fucks her - while you lick her pussy - talk smut about you licking to lick cum from her pussy -- that you like cum. after several times of licking her pussy - say next time when bull comes in your pussy I am going to lick your pussy as soon as he pulls out. Then I am going to suck his cock hard again so he can fuck you again.
 

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At one of our visits to Hedo my wife and I had a threesome with a guy who was bi. He asked me to suck his cock and I did. It was the first time I ever did that and had no homisexual feelings before but I liked it and under the right circumstances I'd like to do it again.
99 percent of the hubby after 45 years old enjoy it and do it again if front of us women.... Stephanie
 

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With most couples it starts out with hubby being a bit awkward and not too involved. As he sees the pleasure that his wife gets from the Bull's cock and gets so aroused himself that he is ready to clean the Bull's semen from her freshly fucked pussy he gets more attracted to that cock. Once he feels a big hard cock pulsing and throbbing in his mouth he is ready to share with the wife.
yes once you understand what your role is it comes much easier and looking always forward to cock I am not even interested in pussy anymore except to clean her pussy full of his freash cum yummy