Advice on introducing cuckold dynamic to my girlfriend

[demas3332]

Hey everyone, looking for some advice from people with experience.
I’ve been interested in exploring a cuckold dynamic, and my girlfriend seems to have a bit of a playful side when it comes to attention and flirting. She’s funny, a little shy at first, but she does enjoy being desired and noticed by others.
We haven’t had a deep conversation about this yet, and I don’t want to approach it the wrong way or make her uncomfortable. I really care about her and want this to be something we both enjoy.
For those who’ve been through this:
How did you bring it up for the first time?
What made your partner feel safe and open to it?
Any mistakes I should avoid?
Just trying to learn the right way to communicate and see if this is something we could explore together

 

[Sharedwife16]

I would tell my wife how sexy she was as we did it, and it being no surprise that other men would love to fuck her.
At some point I went further and told her I'd be fine with her finding out, you get away with so much more in the heat of having sex!.

I then went on to playing games like having her point out men she fancied having sex with, disguised as just wanting to know more about how she thinks, but at the same time getting her to think about other men,whilst gradually making it clear that I'd like her to enjoy trying it with another man.

I would tell her I don't mind her having fun flirting, putting her at ease by saying it would be fun having her tell me when it happens.

If/when someone came along that I could see interested her ( you will see it even though she thinks your both just having fun sharing the flirting ),I'd home in on him, ask for me details, get her openly and comfortably talking about him.

The big question which would have been impossible before all this " would you ...... with him", becomes so easy to ask , and you had your reply ready from the outset " then why not just ...... with him"

You will get the shock and denial reaction , but your reply would be the same " it's up to you, but I'd like you to enjoy having fun with him".

You may get a period where she questions whether you love her and still fancy her, then you just have to convince her, tell her how much she means to you, and that this is only sex, nothing more .

I turned it around , telling her most men are jealous if not controlling, and I'm just not like that , wanting my wife to have more than most wives are allowed...genious! 🤣

Weve been married almost 30 years, I couldn't wish for a better wife. We are so happy,absolute soul mates,and yes , quite a few men have fucked her 👍😁