Am I gay?

I think many times we put far too much emphasis on putting ourselves into a category, Straight, Bi, Gay, etc. About ten years ago we met a man who my wife was hot for. He had years of experience in the Lifestyle and during our first MFM with him, he pushed his finger up inside my butt while my wife was sucking me and he was eating her pussy. It felt amazing and I shot a huge load. In the heat of the moment, I thought it was my wife's finger, something she had not ever done before.

After we were all finished and laying on the bed, catching our breaths, I told my wife that feeling her finger inside my butt was hot. She gave me a curious stare and the guy told us it was his finger. For several days afterward, I questioned my sexuality. On our next meeting with this man, we again had an amazing session, and after I asked him if he was bi. He laughed and said no, he found he cannot put his sexuality in a box.

He said that he is into whatever happened and felt good during sex and he had no boundaries. He told us he learned he is a hedonist, versus being any other term. I found that to be a good example and definition. I have sucked cock, ate ass, swallowed cum, and more over the years since. I have not ever looked at another man with desire, but in the heat of the moment, anything is possible and enjoyable.
 
I also like you. At first we were just threesome mfm, fmf or swing. In a high climax, my wife forced me to hold my partner's cock, then blowjob. Ok I'm fine, as long as my wife is happy. Although it was a bit weird at first but I'm starting to like it. After that, my wife often traps on me, even sometimes she tells my partner to put in me. Oh my god I love but I only think of those things when we have sex.
 

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Don’t label yourself, just enjoy sex. After I got divorced at 37, I waited until I was 48 to try same sex. Wish I had started earlier, and I wish my wife cucked me. Now I love and crave sucking cock, getting fucked in my ass, swallowing cum, getting pissed on, spanked, fucked with toys, eating ass, it’s all good man. Don’t leave yourself short, experience all there is. You’ll find you love it.
 
I think many times we put far too much emphasis on putting ourselves into a category, Straight, Bi, Gay, etc. About ten years ago we met a man who my wife was hot for. He had years of experience in the Lifestyle and during our first MFM with him, he pushed his finger up inside my butt while my wife was sucking me and he was eating her pussy. It felt amazing and I shot a huge load. In the heat of the moment, I thought it was my wife's finger, something she had not ever done before.

After we were all finished and laying on the bed, catching our breaths, I told my wife that feeling her finger inside my butt was hot. She gave me a curious stare and the guy told us it was his finger. For several days afterward, I questioned my sexuality. On our next meeting with this man, we again had an amazing session, and after I asked him if he was bi. He laughed and said no, he found he cannot put his sexuality in a box.

He said that he is into whatever happened and felt good during sex and he had no boundaries. He told us he learned he is a hedonist, versus being any other term. I found that to be a good example and definition. I have sucked cock, ate ass, swallowed cum, and more over the years since. I have not ever looked at another man with desire, but in the heat of the moment, anything is possible and enjoyable.
Excellent post. I to have been hesitant to put my sexual preferences in a box. For the most part I am in to whatever happens in the heat of the moment. We all have our boundaries. I have a preference to sucking cock but that is just something sexually I find very satisfying. Your comment "I have not looked at another man with desire" resonates with me and I couldn't agree more. However, I will admit I have looked at another mans cock with desire...<wink>.
 
Excellent post. I to have been hesitant to put my sexual preferences in a box. For the most part I am in to whatever happens in the heat of the moment. We all have our boundaries. I have a preference to sucking cock but that is just something sexually I find very satisfying. Your comment "I have not looked at another man with desire" resonates with me and I couldn't agree more. However, I will admit I have looked at another mans cock with desire...<wink>.
Haha nailed it with the looked at another mans cock with desire. My wife called me out on that once! After servicing my wife and taking care of her and her lover I finally feel able to ask my wife to dress me as a sissy and rail me with her strap. When she faces me towards the tv and puts on bbc gay porn while she fucks me, that’s when I know she is really happy with me!!
 
If you feel you need a label, keep it simple:
if you like only women you're hetro-sexual
if you like only men you're homo-sexual
if you like men & women you bi-sexual

They're all good, whatever makes YOU happy regardless of what others think
 
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I can't get it up anymore, but would love to clean-up the wife while being peg. I love eating a pussy or ass. Is this odd?
Yes, Erectile dysfunction is not normal. Diabetes, heart disease, low or no testosterone. Gay men get it up! A LOT! Im straight and love eat out a Woman’s pussy and ass and cleaning up my wife's cum filled pussy is the best!
I don’t want anything to do with her Bulls except feeling his cock next to mine deep in my wife’s pussy. DVP is amazing.
 
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If you feel you need a label, keep it simple:
if you like only women you're hetro-sexual
if you like only men you're homo-sexual
if you like men & women you bi-sexual

They're all good, whatever makes YOU happy regardless of what others think
I totally agree.