HUGE red flags!
She's going to slip up eventually! Stay vigilant! Don't tip your hand!
Am I right ??
- Thread starter Snoopsissy
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Don’t worry I’m keeping my powder dry and staying blind / deaf / dumb hubby coastal kid
We were out all day on my motorcycle all day so she had her shower and as usual took her I pad to bed . When I went in for a robe after my shower she was texting with a smile on her face - maybe got a nice juicy text ? . The weather is to be crap tomorrow so she said just do your racing bike tomorrow - which also means she’s going to fuck off somewhere to morrow wherever with whoever so will move the voice recorder into the car - maybe I’ll get lucky
Does she enjoy being out with you motorcycling? Does she ever smile when she's out with you? When you came out of the bathroom and saw her smiling did her smile disappear when she saw you?
Yes she loves on the bike - generally I’d say yes but she’s still ever dismissive every chance she gets I’d say . Looking back yes it did sort of lower but she continued to look at the phone - almost like she knew I’d be wondering what she was smiling about so sort of lowered it so maybe she could say it was her ...... messaging or something else to deflect - step ...... living with us just now away to Spain for a week with his brother - you’d think she’d be as horny as fuck - but it’s still tumbleweed central here
she said she was going to the shops to get something she ordered then changed her mind and asked me to run her up and wait - she was only 5 mins - so that got me thinking - yet again is she or not - does she think he’ll be noticing I’m spending too much time away so is she keeping me close to draw attention from whatever she’s up to ? . See what I mean constantly second guessing myself / her actions and wish I could nail her at something just once - I’m positive she screwing around on me
I would say all the signs that she is screwing around on you are there , ,,,,,,
But and there is always a but ,she may be going through some female thing at the moment with wives you never really know until you find out for certain ,
Find out for certain before you make any move on her,
Don't give her a way to spin it back on you,they are good at that,
Don't give her a way out a way to deni what has been going on,
Go all out,follow her when she goes out of need be take pictures of any interaction with guys maybe one guy will stand out if she is meeting one guy more than oncd more than likely he is the guy screwing her,
Think of what you will do if you do find out she is having an affair don't act on impulse work it out in your head first ,
And above all protect yourself get your affairs in order be prepared ,
Good luck 👍
Many many thanks for those words samsar - I will do all that and more - I will make my case against her watertight - it may be she’s having issues - so why not even more to talk stuff through with your man ? . Just the messsge she lied about that I saw on her phone , then especially washing the panties separately after being away for hours - both of those stink of screwing around
So found these in my wife’s drawer this morning as was putting some undies in it / there are two - what could she be needing / using these for ?? 
Women can be very good at cheating especially married women, a married woman can fuck any number of guys and hide it well, she'll never say a word about it to anyone, a man on the other hand will go tell his buddies all about the new puppy he just got,
I know my wife fucks other guys and I'm ok with that, for my wife it's just sex with no emotional ties, and she rarely fucks the same guy twice, my wife told that women are the best at cheating but they do make mistakes, she said one of the biggest mistakes married women make when cheating on their husbands is not having sex with their husbands on a regular basis,
My wife never says no when I want to fuck she's always ready and will fuck my brains out until I'm fully satisfied, sometimes when my wife and I are fucking I know she thinks of other guys she's fucked, I know because she tells me sometimes,
I suggest to just let her have her fun as long as it doesn't ruin your marriage, remember you can also have a little fun too.
Thank you for your input - I would be delighted if she would do that but sex with her ( or me ? ) seems to be an issue with her - it’s the double standards and narcissistic comments and deceit I just can’t take . She could fuck anyone she wants but hates cheating / extra marital affairs and generally fucking around - but has in the past ( not with me ) fucked her own sisters fiancé , her boss at her work and another co worker oh and the other two guys were engaged to other women at the time - see what I mean - fucking priceless eh . . What she does is above and beyond criticism but me on the other hand - I was the dirtiest bastard for having a 3 some mmf - ( both straight lol ) when I was SINGLE and 15 year before I met her - !! . We made a profile looking for other men to fuck her - she went along with it wanting to pick him / then went ballistic - going along with all of it just to see how serious and how far I’d go with it - that’s what we’re dealing with here guys and girls - I can feel it in my water somethings going on ( maybe has been for a while I’d it turns out who I think it may be
This is a good perspective. I'll be willing to say that Snoopsissy would love it if his wife would do it the way you describe. Unfortunately she doesn't. She and her "daw ter" seem to take some sort of pleasure in antagonizing him instead. She says things like, "She knows all the ways NOT to be found out." and calls him disgusting. According to Snoopsissy she's making what your wife says is the number one biggest mistake, she's not having sex with him.
It seems like she's challenging him to catch her. I think she has as much fun tormenting her husband as much as she does the outside sex.
She's sensing she needs to "up her game". I think she used that opportunity to ask you to take her to the shop knowing that she didn't have anything planned just to throw you off. She'll feel all the more confident thinking she threw you off track with her little ploy. Get those recorders ready!
Yes I suspect so too - yes you’d think she would want to keep her man sweet and give him plenty of sex - but no we can’t have any of that - please your man - unthinkable in her book - she plays to her rules and that means starve your man of sex , maybe fuck around because you know all the ways - but she slipped up already because when she got a message on the phone and said it was only her ...... ‘ loving ‘ her earlier message but when she opened the phone there was absolutely another message showing on the bottom of the phone and then once in the house put it face down - next washing your panties separately ? - I know 100% what I saw both times and both were massive fucking red flags . The recorder is on in the bedroom and the car will be tracked and another recorder hidden in the car for this weekend coming as no doubt she will be going somewhere so it’s a waiting game now coastal kid .
So Snoopissy:
I’m guessing the work must be about finished.
Have you made any progress on finding that GPS Tracker? Also, there is the possibility of putting your phone on ‘silent’ mode, stashing it in your vehicle, and tracking it on your ‘puter at home?
It’s still possible that she’s meeting someone at a mall and they go off together in the other vehicle. But then, you’d have the same issue with a tracker.
On the other hand, the phone might give you an addy to a residence where her ‘friend’ resides. Or, it might take you to a motel. Who knows!
At any rate, if after an account of her activities for the hours away, she were given a little slip of paper with the address … well … she could still be nasty about it.
But the evidence would be pretty damning that her story was a fabricated cover.
Keep us posted.
I’m guessing the work must be about finished.
Have you made any progress on finding that GPS Tracker? Also, there is the possibility of putting your phone on ‘silent’ mode, stashing it in your vehicle, and tracking it on your ‘puter at home?
It’s still possible that she’s meeting someone at a mall and they go off together in the other vehicle. But then, you’d have the same issue with a tracker.
On the other hand, the phone might give you an addy to a residence where her ‘friend’ resides. Or, it might take you to a motel. Who knows!
At any rate, if after an account of her activities for the hours away, she were given a little slip of paper with the address … well … she could still be nasty about it.
But the evidence would be pretty damning that her story was a fabricated cover.
Keep us posted.
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No still work in progress I’m afraid - have a weeks worth of hopefully something on a voice recorder hidden in our bedroom when she goes to bed with the I pad and phone - problem now is finding time to connect to laptop and listen to see if I have anything ? . I will post if there’s anything whatsoever
So absolutely something going on - the other day she was giving me my leaving for work kiss - I decided to try and make the kiss a bit longer - she didn’t make any effort really to respond . Then out of the blue yesterday she said she hadn’t heard from a male ex work colleague in ages . This morning she was drying her hair and I was getting groceries - now normally I would kiss her goodbye and touch / stroke her tits or maybe even suck her nipple / nipples too . Occasionally I would present my cock and she would willingly suck it or lick the end ( which she knows I love ) whether soft / semi or hard . Here is even a pic to prove . This morning however things are different - gave her the kiss goodbye and cupped her left tit as I did so - and she visibly fucking jumped - I mentioned that as a auto reaction to it but she said nothing ! . I think she has mentioned this other guy ( who I knew she did communicate with and as far as I know has never fucked or did anything with her - thst could be crap too but ) . The reason being she could possibly / openly communicate with this other person and I would think it was her friend . My ex fiancé even had the guy she was cheating with on her phone under her best female friends name so I’m switched onto this smokescreen . So I’m in the car park at the supermarket - hopefully me being out of the house and what happened will trigger a call - meanwhile I pray my little friend is listening in the background !!! . 
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