It’s the little things that speak volumes - other day she had to order a birthday card for one of her sons - she had to put her pin no in the phone - i barely glanced sideways trying to see the code - she imperceptibly moved the phone almost as though it was due to her other hand putting the nos in that moved it but shot me a sideways glance to see if I was looking and put the code in I thought as fast as she could without making it look like she was rushing it if that makes sense . I find myself going over and over in my mind everything that I think is a red flag . Stuff she seems to be able to explain innocently enough but I think most guys would smell a rat at - she’s not interested at all in sex - changed her pin no on phone and I pad - gone for hours - washed her panties seperate from other clothes after being gone for 5 hours . Made up a reply to a message but there was another displayed , then put phone with screen facing down . I think got a message late at night - couldn’t get to it in case she woke up , now trying to angle phone to hide changed pin no . Jumped when I touched her tit - on asking why she jumped - no reply or explanation . Maybe it’s not an affair maybe just a fuck now and then but she’s still going behind my back - I know my wife and she used to regularly play with her vibrator do she’s getting something somewhere - she said why have you hidden the vibrators ? . I said well why should you be able to get pleasure when I’m getting nothing - her reply was - don’t you think I could just send for another one ? - not yes you are right we need to be at least try and get a sex life back or something - anything - but as usual very selfish attitude to everything and me in particular . Sorry my messages are fucking novels but seems like nothing going on till you look into the cracks
