rockyrude
Male
Here’s my advice from someone who’s had that same conversation. Don’t push her too much, just let things progress.
What worked for me was taking it on as a challenge and a game. Keep in mind my wife had never been with anyone but me, so, that was something hard to let go of for myself as well and my own ego.
But what worked for me was sitting it up as a game to seduce her. I planned dates with different surprises for her. Some dates were jst going out to a very nice expensive restaurant where she thought the entire night I had something else to my sleeve but I didn’t. I jst planned a nice evening out for her and told her I had a surprise for her:
When we would pull into the driveway after the night out she would say “that’s it”?? I thought you had something else planned, and I’d lean over kiss her and say, nope just getting you a little ...... so I can truly take advantage of you when I get you into the house.
One that really worked for us is one night we pulled up to a very nice little boutique ultra lounge and I told her “Hey, you wanna try something fun? She, was like oh, no, I knew there would be some catch to this night, and I was like don’t feel that way. I jst have an idea, let’s go into the bar separately. You go in first sit at the bar and see how many free drinks guys will buy you and we will save some money and I will swoop in and save you at some point when I ready to take you home and fk you.
She actually had lot of fun with this and I gave her free range. She even asked, what if one of these guys try to kiss me? I said don’t do anything you’re not comfortable doing. You can give me a look or come get me at anytime and I’ll come get you. So, don’t worrry.
Other thing we did was went to New Orleans with another couple who both wanted my wife as a 3rd minus me. The girls did get a lot of beads and it was a huge turn on seeing her flash her tits with the other girl on the balcony of the Cats Meow on Bourbon street.
The final one that really got things to the final stage is we attended a swinger party where we didn’t play, we were allowed to jst watch and that really corrupted her mind.
Last but not least after we would go out some nights on the town I would tell her I have one last surprise and I would take her to the Lido Theater in Dallas.
It’s a seedy adult theater that has a large room theater with about 60 seats and there were usually about 25 guys in there and maybe two or three couples.
The rule for couples if you didn’t want any attention from the random guys in the theater couples set on the very back row with the wall to there backs. This ment they were not looking for any physical contact with anyone other than one another.
One night I took my wife out and we did the separate thing at the bar where she was on her own the whole night and this night a guy really took a liking to her, we found a different bar where they had these back of the room round table booths and he took my wife from the bar to a back booth to where I was trying not to be obvious and let them have their space but when I entered where I could see them I’m shocked to see them making out and he has his hand up under her blouse rubbing her tits.
She had on a short leather skirt so I knew he was probably playing with her pussy under the table but unfortunately it was too dark and I couldn’t see it.
The end of this night and me going to reschedule her was very awkward because he had gotten her pretty sloshed and he was sure he was taking her home but I wasn’t comfortable even approaching that because she was jst too inebriated and I didn’t want her sloppy ...... for her first time.
She was more than willing to peel off with me and leave though much to his dismay.
I knew this night though I had her!!
I knew if I had told her let me talk to him and we can go get a hotel room she would have been more than willing, but again she ws too ...... in my opinion.
Fast forward we go get something to eat after the bar closes and she sobers some and I lean in to give her a big kiss and slip my hand under her skirt where I literally find her little black silky panties sopping wet.
I was like holy sh** you must have really liked him?? Did he finger you, or rub your pussy? Where she just blushed and hid her face and didn’t say anything.
I told her, we’ll, I didn’t know you liked him that much, we should have just got a room where she smiled at me and gave me one of her looks.
I didn’t even tell her I was taking her to the adult theater. She laid back in the seat to relax and close her eyes while I drove and I drove us straight to the Lido Theater 🎭
And this night we didn’t sit on the back row. I took her and led her up to the middle of the theater which means you’re actually ok to be approached.
I’ve already written about that night so I won’t rewrite it again but it was one of the most erotic nights that I still relive in my head and better yet I got some of the night on video: 💪
