you could do a bit of research and find a club thats more suited, but how do you know that she doesnt want to fuck an older guy?
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I’ll ask her and let you know as soon as I get her to fuck someone. She’ll do it, we already discussed, but may take some time. So I try to get her to be honest and tell me what (and what kind of bull) she wants, and she shall have him.
I’ve actually done research but even the most ”classy” ones in the area are not very modern. I mean no offence about the age, I have no problem with it and actually we both like older as well (she used to have an older boyfriend). As long as the personality matches and appearance is neat, I guess it doesnt matter. But it would still be a bit odd if the majority is 50+, she would get a lot of attention😄 (which wouldnt be so bad thing tbh).
Most bulls are not even bi curious so he definately is not there to satisfy hubbys needs.this is why plenty of hotwives prefer to play alone, as hubby being there can spoil her enjoyment.notice i say "HER" enjoyment.he gets off on her enjoyment.its NOT about sexually pleasing a sissy hubby.thats between man and wife.nothing to worry about for an alpha bull,
Also i just dont get it! I mean how does any man know what being fucked roughly feels like for a wife? Remember this is the same wife who swears cock size means nothing then soaks her knickers watching bbc porn.
I think you should go and see how it pans out, she doesn't have to do anything in the club. If she not attracted to anyone, she can just watch and have a drink
There’s a difference of watching someone being fucked roughly than actually doing it. I think you’re watching too much porn and don’t know much what women want. When you watch massive cock stretch pussy and ass, it looks extreme (also this is btw not everyone’s cup of tea) and that’s turning on, doing something that you normally wont experience. Put the wife in the same situation with 10” cock both in ass and pussy being fucked for 20 mins roughly, maybe the reality wasnt as enjoyable as the thought.
Of course my wife also loves being fucked roughly. When i do it she begs for more, pulls myself harder against her, but it should not be the only way to fuck.
This is not what my wife wants, It’s what I want. She never asked if she could fuck others. She’s very happy with what I offer. If that wasnt the case, she would have jumped immediately on the opportunity when I told her I want to see her with another man. I want a bull to fuck my wife and I want to experience it as well by watching. There wont be a bull telling me to ”******** off, i fuck your wife now”.
But thats the fantasy part, in reality my wife will decide if she will fuck another guy. She might be curious to do it (as she fantasizes about it), she might partly do it because I want it. The best thing to happen would be that she loves doing it and it could be our ”new thing”, together. She loves me as I love her, if she would tell me to stay away, i would be surprised and disappointed. I would not deny her it but Im not sure if it would work out in a long run and that would hurt our marriage so this would have to be one of the boundaries we set at the behinning. Then again, I dont want to cage her and I would adapt, but that would change the game and I would also want to fuck others.
what do you have to lose? If she is willing to go, she might enjoy just watching, seeing how the other wives play, and with who and how many. It might open her up to other ideas. You never know after a few drinks she might let her inhibitions go and have some fun
I got nothing to lose
i already asked this but it was a couple years ago. She didnt say no but said that ”not ready to cross the border” as our sexlife was perfectly good still. She wanted to save it for later to spice things up.you can only ask again and see where it leads, don't forget to keep us updated. Are you gonna plan it then?I got nothing to lose
Yes, but she’s on a business trip and we have friends coming over this weekend. Have to be the weekend after. I’ll keep you updated! Thanks for the interest 🙂
Come to the Florida Keys. This could be awesome
Good luck!I got nothing to lose
Bring her down for vacation. We can make this happen.I got nothing to lose
This is the PERFECT situation for her to experiment. She's on a business trip so you should encourage her to dress sexy, flirt, behave like a single woman and see if it's fun for her. If it works out that she picks a guy up and breaks the ice by having sex with him, then that is fantastic. She doesn't have to worry about your thoughts or pleasing you and to be truthful, it gives her an opportunity to not think about you at all. That would be between her and another man and you will be there to benefit from her stories and experience after she's finished. It would go a long way toward "normalization" of this lifestyle, which I believe is the single most important factor in getting a wife to become a hotwife or open to sex with other men or couples. The things we discuss and experience, we consider to be normal (at least those of us who are active in this lifestyle) but most people would consider us to be perverted and sexually deviant.
Much of what you read here is NOT how it works in real life, at least in my experience. I've read some of those comments from "dominant bulls" about this and that on this thread and they simply don't reflect common behavior either in my lifestyle experiences or with vanilla guys who have picked me up. I've had exactly 1 GUY who got too rough with me and I quickly pushed him off of me, got dressed and left. He had a very large cock, just like I enjoy. The trouble with him was that he used it to hurt me and I told him to stop, 3 times! Any guy, with even an average cock can find a way to hurt a woman with it during sex and pretty much every guy I've played with who had a huge cock was VERY careful in how they used it on me. I'm able to take it all and I enjoy it, but those guys (in real life) have had enough experiences with enough women that they know they have to be careful and patient when having sex.
I love MFM threesomes and when I'm meeting a new guy from one of the lifestyle sites I always ask my husband if he wants to to join us. Sometimes he does but mostly he doesn't, because he likes my sex life with other guys to be "uninhibited" for both the other guy and me. So we have certain guys we have threesomes with and I have mostly guys I have one on one sex with or I play with them and their wife as a unicorn or in a "cuckcake" role. We've never had a guy try to humiliate my husband in an overt way but some will push slowly to test the limits and determine what Mr HW cares to experience. In reality, some guy you just met isn't going to tell your husband to suck his cock or to roll over so the guy can fuck him in the ass!! They aren't going to become violent in any form with me either, other than smacking me on the ass or "face fucking" me a bit. The rest of it that you are reading about really isn't common, from my experience.
My advice after all of this commentary is simply, do whatever you can to "normalize" extra-marital sex for your wife and then encourage that. It will be much simpler in the long run if you just give her your permission to have sex with other men and then leave her alone about it. Once she breaks the ice and then becomes accustomed to it, realizing that "....And Then Nothing Happened" (as my next LSM article will likely be) is a KEY to her pleasure and your gaining pleasure from her experiences. She can have fun, you can enjoy it and no matter what she did, you leave her alone to enjoy it and alleviate any concern of hers that something problematic, drama, will happen once you find out. She did it and then.....nothing happened. It was a great experience.
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